1 00:00:08,455 --> 00:00:09,455 Sup, fuckers! 2 00:00:09,530 --> 00:00:12,158 Welcome to another episode of Let's Get Sidetracked 3 00:00:12,183 --> 00:00:14,930 with me, Sophia, and me, Stephanie. 4 00:00:15,040 --> 00:00:17,490 And this was the first time we tried that. 5 00:00:17,655 --> 00:00:18,910 We totally nailed it. 6 00:00:19,110 --> 00:00:20,110 Oh yeah, absolutely. 7 00:00:20,870 --> 00:00:23,630 We both have matching microphones now. 8 00:00:24,050 --> 00:00:25,870 I mean, mine's a little cooler looking. 9 00:00:26,090 --> 00:00:26,750 Yours is cooler. 10 00:00:26,751 --> 00:00:27,751 It's blue. 11 00:00:28,230 --> 00:00:33,230 She has the creator edition, which is like a nice blue. 12 00:00:34,650 --> 00:00:39,510 It's really nice, but I gave it to her and I'm with the silver one. 13 00:00:39,730 --> 00:00:42,270 Plus, I'm the mom, so give me the cool shit. 14 00:00:42,271 --> 00:00:43,271 And bitches love blue. 15 00:00:43,365 --> 00:00:44,710 Bitches do love blue, don't they? 16 00:00:45,010 --> 00:00:45,450 Absolutely. 17 00:00:45,570 --> 00:00:46,570 They do. 18 00:00:48,440 --> 00:00:49,530 What are the topics? 19 00:00:49,720 --> 00:00:50,720 Do we have any topics? 20 00:00:51,150 --> 00:00:53,250 I don't have any topics, but if you have any... 21 00:00:53,550 --> 00:00:56,050 You know, we kicked around an idea of... 22 00:00:56,750 --> 00:00:57,450 A holiday edition. 23 00:00:57,710 --> 00:00:57,930 Yeah. 24 00:00:58,590 --> 00:01:00,170 And this is not it. 25 00:01:00,630 --> 00:01:01,070 Nope. 26 00:01:01,130 --> 00:01:01,470 Nope. 27 00:01:01,580 --> 00:01:02,270 This isn't it. 28 00:01:02,515 --> 00:01:05,190 If you have not joined us before, I am an EMT. 29 00:01:05,670 --> 00:01:11,310 I do inter-facility transports, which is not 9-1-1, thankfully, on my part. 30 00:01:11,665 --> 00:01:14,730 Not that I'm not excited about that stuff, but you know what? 31 00:01:14,750 --> 00:01:17,530 I have had enough excitement in my life at this point. 32 00:01:18,145 --> 00:01:22,610 I am not young, and I don't need to get all excited about stuff. 33 00:01:23,170 --> 00:01:25,110 So I'm totally cool taking me to my home. 34 00:01:25,660 --> 00:01:27,030 And, you know... Meemaw. 35 00:01:27,480 --> 00:01:28,890 I gotta take my meemaw home. 36 00:01:28,891 --> 00:01:31,210 Your weird uncle that you only talk about twice a year. 37 00:01:31,310 --> 00:01:32,430 So I'm alright with that. 38 00:01:32,630 --> 00:01:35,450 And he makes everybody uncomfortable at Thanksgiving dinner. 39 00:01:36,040 --> 00:01:37,040 He doesn't. 40 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:38,370 He does a really great job. 41 00:01:38,450 --> 00:01:41,290 Other people are not good at communicating with him. 42 00:01:41,780 --> 00:01:42,950 Let's talk about my uncle. 43 00:01:43,580 --> 00:01:44,650 Your uncle is not creepy. 44 00:01:45,260 --> 00:01:49,850 The uncle coming over saying, That knee sure does look smooth. 45 00:01:49,930 --> 00:01:50,930 Can I touch that? 46 00:01:51,080 --> 00:01:51,790 That's a creepy uncle. 47 00:01:51,791 --> 00:01:53,350 That skirt looks too short. 48 00:01:54,480 --> 00:01:55,480 Let me measure it. 49 00:01:55,510 --> 00:01:56,510 Yeah, that's no. 50 00:01:56,750 --> 00:01:57,670 Let me measure that hookah. 51 00:01:57,671 --> 00:02:01,390 Look, to be clear, your uncle is not that uncle. 52 00:02:01,650 --> 00:02:02,610 No, absolutely not. 53 00:02:02,611 --> 00:02:03,030 No, no, no, no. 54 00:02:03,530 --> 00:02:07,230 Aside from all of his, like, beliefs, he's pretty good. 55 00:02:07,231 --> 00:02:08,231 He's a Republican. 56 00:02:08,440 --> 00:02:09,250 Oh, absolutely. 57 00:02:09,350 --> 00:02:12,390 Yeah, he's a super, super red Republican. 58 00:02:13,105 --> 00:02:14,870 And it doesn't make it wrong. 59 00:02:14,990 --> 00:02:17,950 It just doesn't make it right for our family. 60 00:02:18,110 --> 00:02:22,210 Yeah, and he drives like a $100,000 truck. 61 00:02:23,040 --> 00:02:24,690 Like $160,000 truck. 62 00:02:24,910 --> 00:02:25,610 Don't they have a Tahoe? 63 00:02:25,810 --> 00:02:26,270 No. 64 00:02:26,750 --> 00:02:27,170 They got rid of that. 65 00:02:27,270 --> 00:02:27,470 Oh. 66 00:02:27,670 --> 00:02:33,510 He has a Ram now, like a 1500 or something. 67 00:02:33,810 --> 00:02:34,170 Oh, no. 68 00:02:34,171 --> 00:02:35,171 Really? 69 00:02:35,590 --> 00:02:40,790 And his wife drives the Mercedes they bought a few years back. 70 00:02:40,870 --> 00:02:42,226 Oh, I didn't know they had a Mercedes. 71 00:02:42,250 --> 00:02:43,406 Yeah, they bought a Mercedes. 72 00:02:43,430 --> 00:02:44,330 It's like... Okay. 73 00:02:44,550 --> 00:02:44,770 Okay. 74 00:02:45,300 --> 00:02:46,526 I'm not, I'm just gonna say it. 75 00:02:46,550 --> 00:02:47,550 Is it an SUV? 76 00:02:47,730 --> 00:02:48,810 No, it's just like a sedan. 77 00:02:49,050 --> 00:02:49,450 Oh, okay. 78 00:02:49,470 --> 00:02:51,130 It's super cool, though. 79 00:02:51,530 --> 00:02:52,530 Yeah, absolutely. 80 00:02:52,650 --> 00:02:53,830 It sounds cool. 81 00:02:54,010 --> 00:02:54,290 Yeah. 82 00:02:54,291 --> 00:02:55,210 It doesn't sound like. 83 00:02:55,211 --> 00:02:56,710 But it sounds. 84 00:02:56,711 --> 00:02:58,250 Oh, that's nice. 85 00:02:58,330 --> 00:02:59,330 Those are nice. 86 00:02:59,570 --> 00:02:59,790 Yeah. 87 00:02:59,850 --> 00:03:02,870 It doesn't like... it's very luxury. 88 00:03:03,110 --> 00:03:06,350 And my luxury is Toyota. 89 00:03:07,255 --> 00:03:08,470 Well, I mean, it's not bad. 90 00:03:08,570 --> 00:03:09,570 Toyota is not bad. 91 00:03:09,910 --> 00:03:11,530 Lexus, beautiful vehicles. 92 00:03:11,730 --> 00:03:12,730 Oh, love it. 93 00:03:13,250 --> 00:03:14,190 The 4Runner. 94 00:03:14,270 --> 00:03:15,390 I do drive a Lexus. 95 00:03:15,565 --> 00:03:18,505 And I'm gonna just preface that by saying that 96 00:03:18,506 --> 00:03:21,450 we have a friend that worked for a Toyota Lexus. 97 00:03:21,490 --> 00:03:24,470 And so we were able to get a very good deal. 98 00:03:24,471 --> 00:03:26,190 We're still paying it off. 99 00:03:26,820 --> 00:03:29,410 Hey, we only have like five more months. 100 00:03:29,490 --> 00:03:32,350 If we didn't have a hookup, I would not have a Lexus. 101 00:03:32,390 --> 00:03:32,850 Oh, absolutely. 102 00:03:32,890 --> 00:03:37,970 So I'm very grateful to have that hookup because I fucking love my car. 103 00:03:38,750 --> 00:03:40,470 I call her Alicia. 104 00:03:41,860 --> 00:03:42,900 I call it the Lamborghini. 105 00:03:43,505 --> 00:03:44,290 It's not the Lambo. 106 00:03:44,310 --> 00:03:44,890 It's the Lambo. 107 00:03:45,070 --> 00:03:45,310 No. 108 00:03:45,460 --> 00:03:47,290 I call her Alicia for some reason. 109 00:03:47,310 --> 00:03:52,510 Well, no, I know why it is because I don't know why. 110 00:03:52,511 --> 00:03:57,870 But girls with winged eyeliner, I equate that with being named Alicia. 111 00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:01,371 My car, some of the trim... I'm Alicia? 112 00:04:01,550 --> 00:04:02,550 I'm Alicia. 113 00:04:03,910 --> 00:04:10,330 There's some trim that looks like winged eyeliner behind the passenger windows. 114 00:04:10,670 --> 00:04:12,750 Sorry, behind the backseat windows. 115 00:04:12,751 --> 00:04:13,550 I know what you're talking about. 116 00:04:13,551 --> 00:04:15,490 And so I just call her Alicia. 117 00:04:15,890 --> 00:04:18,430 And she's... I don't know. 118 00:04:19,010 --> 00:04:20,010 She's cool. 119 00:04:20,230 --> 00:04:22,090 Like she's a rider die. 120 00:04:23,030 --> 00:04:24,690 I feel like she's a rider die for sure. 121 00:04:25,010 --> 00:04:28,610 I'm just gonna say Lexus does an extremely good job with their paint. 122 00:04:30,270 --> 00:04:37,010 It has a beautiful sort of pearl, like shimmery black. 123 00:04:37,090 --> 00:04:38,470 Mine is not pearl. 124 00:04:38,550 --> 00:04:39,590 Mine's glittery black. 125 00:04:39,930 --> 00:04:40,810 That's what I meant. 126 00:04:40,950 --> 00:04:44,250 I didn't... I couldn't think of the word that I was trying to look for. 127 00:04:44,430 --> 00:04:50,950 See, when we went and did a test drive, I drove a black one. 128 00:04:51,050 --> 00:04:51,490 Mm-hmm. 129 00:04:51,491 --> 00:04:53,770 And I really liked how it felt driving. 130 00:04:53,870 --> 00:04:55,690 And as we... I parked it. 131 00:04:56,150 --> 00:04:59,470 And then as we're walking up to the dealership to kind of talk about the car, 132 00:04:59,550 --> 00:05:01,490 you know how they're gonna try to get you to buy. 133 00:05:01,670 --> 00:05:01,810 Yeah. 134 00:05:02,250 --> 00:05:07,870 I passed by this one and I actually went, and I was like, this one has sparkles. 135 00:05:08,330 --> 00:05:11,910 And Rhonda, of course, laughed at me because she's met me. 136 00:05:12,610 --> 00:05:15,050 And so I was like, this one has sparkles. 137 00:05:15,425 --> 00:05:17,310 And Rhonda's like, well, tell us about this one. 138 00:05:17,580 --> 00:05:20,630 And the dude's like, oh, this is exactly like the one you just drove. 139 00:05:20,631 --> 00:05:25,190 It hasn't finished because it had just been returned from being a... Lease. 140 00:05:25,300 --> 00:05:26,090 A lease car. 141 00:05:26,250 --> 00:05:26,450 Yeah. 142 00:05:26,570 --> 00:05:29,790 And he's like, it hasn't finished the checks yet. 143 00:05:29,870 --> 00:05:33,058 But as soon as we make sure that it gets through, 144 00:05:33,059 --> 00:05:35,490 like we can absolutely talk about that one. 145 00:05:35,570 --> 00:05:37,010 And so that's who I came home with. 146 00:05:37,610 --> 00:05:38,090 Yeah. 147 00:05:38,110 --> 00:05:41,550 So the thing... I brought up leasing. 148 00:05:42,310 --> 00:05:43,710 Why would you lease a car? 149 00:05:44,310 --> 00:05:47,830 You basically pay for a car and then you get nothing. 150 00:05:47,880 --> 00:05:51,290 But you don't have to own a car to have a car. 151 00:05:51,670 --> 00:05:52,030 Yes. 152 00:05:52,490 --> 00:05:55,910 But at that point, just get a shit box. 153 00:05:57,730 --> 00:06:03,070 But what if you want a new car every two years and you don't mind just paying for it? 154 00:06:03,071 --> 00:06:04,910 I'm fine with that on my phone. 155 00:06:05,490 --> 00:06:06,490 But a car? 156 00:06:07,050 --> 00:06:10,050 We just started and we're going to take a commercial break. 157 00:06:10,340 --> 00:06:11,340 Here's some music. 158 00:06:18,980 --> 00:06:20,560 Welcome back from the break, everybody. 159 00:06:21,510 --> 00:06:23,400 The totally real break that happened. 160 00:06:23,401 --> 00:06:24,580 Welcome back from the break. 161 00:06:26,180 --> 00:06:31,000 So yeah, Sydney wanted to go outside because she's a little shit. 162 00:06:32,100 --> 00:06:33,100 She's a diva. 163 00:06:33,160 --> 00:06:34,160 She really is. 164 00:06:34,260 --> 00:06:36,788 And we're going to take a few minutes to talk 165 00:06:36,789 --> 00:06:39,140 about the amount of animals that live in our house. 166 00:06:39,280 --> 00:06:41,700 They are only all dogs at this point. 167 00:06:42,590 --> 00:06:44,600 And the corpse of a fish. 168 00:06:46,220 --> 00:06:47,120 Well, yeah. 169 00:06:47,180 --> 00:06:48,180 Pop it in the filter. 170 00:06:48,815 --> 00:06:52,280 There's always a corpse of a fish in our house because they're Sam and Dean. 171 00:06:52,281 --> 00:06:54,600 And they always die and come back. 172 00:06:55,100 --> 00:06:56,740 And, you know, what are you going to do? 173 00:06:56,741 --> 00:06:58,960 We're just ignoring the not fish corpse. 174 00:07:00,520 --> 00:07:02,420 So here's me ignoring this. 175 00:07:03,440 --> 00:07:08,540 Back in 2011, long before. 176 00:07:10,200 --> 00:07:11,200 Long before time. 177 00:07:11,560 --> 00:07:12,560 Back in my day. 178 00:07:12,640 --> 00:07:13,300 Back in my day. 179 00:07:13,380 --> 00:07:15,180 Long before Rhonda happened. 180 00:07:15,660 --> 00:07:18,400 Speaking of the dog, she was just doing a mischief. 181 00:07:18,475 --> 00:07:21,620 And we had to go check on her because I heard some ripping paper. 182 00:07:21,621 --> 00:07:24,600 And it's not always a terrible thing. 183 00:07:25,390 --> 00:07:28,260 Because she loves the Amazon packing paper. 184 00:07:28,560 --> 00:07:31,640 Just any brown crinkly paper, I think. 185 00:07:31,700 --> 00:07:32,260 She just loves. 186 00:07:32,360 --> 00:07:33,440 She loves it. 187 00:07:33,460 --> 00:07:34,460 She lays on it. 188 00:07:34,760 --> 00:07:36,560 She tears it up. 189 00:07:36,620 --> 00:07:36,880 Oh, yeah. 190 00:07:37,440 --> 00:07:38,440 She doesn't care. 191 00:07:38,910 --> 00:07:42,340 But since we're talking about the dogs, let's talk about the dogs. 192 00:07:42,580 --> 00:07:43,400 Yeah, let's do that. 193 00:07:43,440 --> 00:07:51,100 So the first dog that lived with us back in 2011 is when we got Eddie. 194 00:07:51,101 --> 00:07:54,360 And that was long before there was a Rhonda and Stephanie. 195 00:07:55,090 --> 00:07:57,960 And Eddie was the second dog in that house. 196 00:07:58,080 --> 00:08:00,140 And he was just a few months old. 197 00:08:00,260 --> 00:08:02,220 And his original name was Charlie Brown. 198 00:08:03,270 --> 00:08:04,960 And I know it's so cute, right? 199 00:08:05,040 --> 00:08:06,040 I didn't know that. 200 00:08:06,120 --> 00:08:08,140 I didn't know it was Charlie Brown. 201 00:08:08,480 --> 00:08:08,640 Yeah. 202 00:08:08,800 --> 00:08:14,380 And we originally had Jacob Peter was the dog that we had. 203 00:08:14,500 --> 00:08:18,320 He was a mini pincher. 204 00:08:18,670 --> 00:08:20,760 And I really wanted a dog. 205 00:08:20,761 --> 00:08:22,020 And I wanted a little dog. 206 00:08:22,080 --> 00:08:23,080 And I got this dog. 207 00:08:23,200 --> 00:08:25,960 And then your dad was not very kind to him. 208 00:08:26,210 --> 00:08:28,440 And he ended up being not a very good dog. 209 00:08:29,260 --> 00:08:30,960 Good dog, bad environment. 210 00:08:31,580 --> 00:08:32,580 Bad environment. 211 00:08:33,200 --> 00:08:36,337 And we did eventually have to rehome him to 212 00:08:36,338 --> 00:08:40,501 a very lovely person who really wanted a dog. 213 00:08:40,670 --> 00:08:44,000 And I was very thankful that we could find someone for him to live with. 214 00:08:45,040 --> 00:08:46,400 He was a runner, too. 215 00:08:46,500 --> 00:08:47,040 He was a runner. 216 00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:47,880 He was a biter. 217 00:08:48,075 --> 00:08:49,920 And then we had to move into an apartment. 218 00:08:49,921 --> 00:08:54,360 And that does not... it's not conducive to that at all. 219 00:08:54,545 --> 00:08:56,440 Well, he was a yapper. 220 00:08:57,000 --> 00:08:57,820 So was Eddie. 221 00:08:57,821 --> 00:08:59,420 I mean, Eddie Little Dog is. 222 00:08:59,720 --> 00:09:00,720 Well, yeah. 223 00:09:00,990 --> 00:09:05,900 I still remember we would leave the garage door open because he would come back. 224 00:09:06,100 --> 00:09:06,460 Oh, yeah. 225 00:09:06,620 --> 00:09:06,960 Yeah. 226 00:09:07,040 --> 00:09:09,960 He would run the entire neighborhood. 227 00:09:10,000 --> 00:09:12,880 And when he got tired, he would just come back through the garage door. 228 00:09:13,390 --> 00:09:16,440 We could chase him literally for miles. 229 00:09:16,580 --> 00:09:18,560 And he would just run and run and run and run and run. 230 00:09:18,580 --> 00:09:19,440 We got a special guest. 231 00:09:19,441 --> 00:09:20,760 It's Sydney. 232 00:09:21,660 --> 00:09:22,220 Sydney. 233 00:09:22,221 --> 00:09:23,560 Speak of the devil, Skidney. 234 00:09:24,160 --> 00:09:25,940 I'm not the devil whore. 235 00:09:26,020 --> 00:09:26,360 Hi. 236 00:09:26,560 --> 00:09:27,560 Don't look at me. 237 00:09:27,600 --> 00:09:31,540 She's wagging her tail looking at me like she's really happy to be here. 238 00:09:31,720 --> 00:09:32,260 She is. 239 00:09:32,520 --> 00:09:33,520 She is. 240 00:09:33,690 --> 00:09:37,300 Sydney is the last of the conversation about dogs. 241 00:09:37,480 --> 00:09:41,640 And so after we moved into the apartment, it was just Eddie. 242 00:09:42,380 --> 00:09:43,780 And then we moved in with Rhonda. 243 00:09:46,845 --> 00:09:49,420 And we figured Eddie was probably kind of lonely. 244 00:09:49,421 --> 00:09:51,540 Because he did have Jake to live with before. 245 00:09:51,720 --> 00:09:56,420 And so we adopted a beautiful Chihuahua. 246 00:09:57,320 --> 00:09:58,320 Lupita. 247 00:09:58,520 --> 00:09:59,520 Lupita. 248 00:10:00,400 --> 00:10:03,880 She was a Chihuahua Italian Greyhound. 249 00:10:04,090 --> 00:10:05,720 And she was a crazy one. 250 00:10:05,880 --> 00:10:06,880 She's lovely. 251 00:10:07,380 --> 00:10:09,400 She was such a sweetheart. 252 00:10:10,230 --> 00:10:12,560 But she developed a heart condition. 253 00:10:13,515 --> 00:10:17,460 And so she did eventually go into... 254 00:10:18,830 --> 00:10:20,560 I don't want to say cardiac arrest. 255 00:10:20,800 --> 00:10:23,580 It was congestive heart failure. 256 00:10:23,581 --> 00:10:24,720 Her heart started to fail. 257 00:10:24,880 --> 00:10:27,700 And it was better to put her down. 258 00:10:28,040 --> 00:10:30,480 She had to be in a high oxygen environment. 259 00:10:30,481 --> 00:10:32,360 Which was a very small space. 260 00:10:32,680 --> 00:10:35,180 And she was not happy with that. 261 00:10:35,370 --> 00:10:42,160 And the sad part is that she pretty much the entire time was not a big fan of me. 262 00:10:43,175 --> 00:10:45,620 Up until she passed away. 263 00:10:45,920 --> 00:10:46,220 Yeah. 264 00:10:46,221 --> 00:10:50,420 2018 she started to like me and started sleeping in my room. 265 00:10:50,640 --> 00:10:51,800 And then she passed in 2019. 266 00:10:51,801 --> 00:10:52,140 And then she passed away. 267 00:10:52,685 --> 00:10:55,940 And that was the first time as a family we had to decide. 268 00:10:56,790 --> 00:11:01,340 What is the point where we do say who is this good for? 269 00:11:01,500 --> 00:11:01,760 Yeah. 270 00:11:01,860 --> 00:11:04,820 Do we keep the dog alive for them or for us? 271 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:08,440 And that's the... I don't know. 272 00:11:08,520 --> 00:11:09,620 It's devastating. 273 00:11:09,680 --> 00:11:10,760 It's fucking heartbreaking. 274 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:12,940 Because it's a member of the family. 275 00:11:13,180 --> 00:11:13,440 Yeah. 276 00:11:13,780 --> 00:11:16,120 And when a member of the family dies. 277 00:11:16,121 --> 00:11:18,880 Honestly this is going to sound real bad. 278 00:11:19,930 --> 00:11:24,300 I think I cried more at Peta's death than Pop's death. 279 00:11:24,540 --> 00:11:26,000 Because I... You were older too. 280 00:11:26,220 --> 00:11:28,900 I didn't know how to handle the emotions when I was younger. 281 00:11:29,200 --> 00:11:31,620 Well and you weren't really allowed to either. 282 00:11:32,100 --> 00:11:34,761 Well that and... It was a very different environment. 283 00:11:34,940 --> 00:11:36,660 That and it came so quick. 284 00:11:37,360 --> 00:11:38,120 I didn't have time to process. 285 00:11:38,121 --> 00:11:39,321 But both of them did honestly. 286 00:11:39,560 --> 00:11:39,800 Oh yeah. 287 00:11:40,145 --> 00:11:41,940 Well the thing with Peta is it was... 288 00:11:41,941 --> 00:11:45,300 It was like she was on heart medication and then it went... 289 00:11:45,301 --> 00:11:52,180 Well she was diagnosed with the heart failure in I think March or April. 290 00:11:52,890 --> 00:12:00,421 We got her on medication and she started to decline and we had to put her down in July. 291 00:12:00,760 --> 00:12:02,020 July 5th, 2019. 292 00:12:02,400 --> 00:12:02,800 Yep. 293 00:12:03,060 --> 00:12:04,740 At 5.18pm. 294 00:12:05,530 --> 00:12:06,970 I'm so sorry that you remember that. 295 00:12:07,850 --> 00:12:09,120 Well because... It was tough. 296 00:12:09,685 --> 00:12:13,480 Well because I had just talked to one of our neighbors. 297 00:12:13,580 --> 00:12:15,000 I was like yeah we got her on medication. 298 00:12:15,001 --> 00:12:16,160 She's doing better. 299 00:12:16,725 --> 00:12:18,260 And then that next morning... Yeah. 300 00:12:18,450 --> 00:12:21,201 She had to go to the... She was... Had to go to the emergency room. 301 00:12:21,880 --> 00:12:23,740 The last time we didn't... 302 00:12:24,240 --> 00:12:24,880 No, no, never mind. 303 00:12:25,230 --> 00:12:28,514 I was going to say when Eddie had his issue where 304 00:12:28,515 --> 00:12:31,181 we thought we were going to have to put him down. 305 00:12:32,020 --> 00:12:35,180 I thought we went to the same vet but I don't think we did. 306 00:12:35,400 --> 00:12:35,860 We did. 307 00:12:36,080 --> 00:12:36,840 Well yeah we did. 308 00:12:37,040 --> 00:12:38,360 Because we've been with Banfield. 309 00:12:38,810 --> 00:12:39,900 It was the same vet. 310 00:12:40,440 --> 00:12:41,440 And the... 311 00:12:41,910 --> 00:12:43,526 Actually I know what you're talking about. 312 00:12:43,550 --> 00:12:47,040 So the... There was a... There's a... Over in... 313 00:12:47,110 --> 00:12:49,740 I don't know if it's Lake Oswego or Tigard. 314 00:12:49,741 --> 00:12:50,741 I think it's Lake Oswego. 315 00:12:50,960 --> 00:12:52,520 It's right off of Carmen Drive. 316 00:12:53,080 --> 00:12:54,080 Tualatin. 317 00:12:54,900 --> 00:12:58,501 It's in Tualatin because I remember looking up... That's a whole confusing area. 318 00:12:58,660 --> 00:13:00,960 But there's the... Oregon is confusing. 319 00:13:00,961 --> 00:13:04,320 Two different practices share an office. 320 00:13:04,380 --> 00:13:06,840 There's a cardiologist and a dental... 321 00:13:07,340 --> 00:13:10,980 An animal cardiology and animal dental practice. 322 00:13:11,610 --> 00:13:13,280 So we did go to the same office. 323 00:13:14,055 --> 00:13:14,960 Different doctors. 324 00:13:15,010 --> 00:13:21,080 So we went to the same office for Peta where we had to put her down. 325 00:13:21,360 --> 00:13:22,780 And then when Eddie... 326 00:13:23,500 --> 00:13:24,740 Jumping ahead a little bit. 327 00:13:24,840 --> 00:13:28,260 Eddie... Sydney who keeps interrupting us. 328 00:13:28,535 --> 00:13:31,080 She loves to slap Eddie with her paw. 329 00:13:31,500 --> 00:13:32,780 Because he makes noises. 330 00:13:33,500 --> 00:13:36,160 And then she will stand there and lick his head. 331 00:13:36,590 --> 00:13:38,040 And the back of his neck. 332 00:13:38,320 --> 00:13:40,940 And like two years ago now. 333 00:13:41,060 --> 00:13:42,280 About this time of year. 334 00:13:42,610 --> 00:13:43,900 She slapped him. 335 00:13:44,040 --> 00:13:44,940 And he wasn't paying attention. 336 00:13:44,941 --> 00:13:48,140 And his face went flat down into the ground. 337 00:13:48,180 --> 00:13:49,180 And she broke his jaw. 338 00:13:50,300 --> 00:13:51,400 Now to clarify. 339 00:13:52,370 --> 00:13:53,860 His jaw was already weakened. 340 00:13:55,140 --> 00:13:57,880 Chihuahuas are really terrible with dental. 341 00:13:58,420 --> 00:13:59,560 And here she is. 342 00:14:00,670 --> 00:14:01,670 Speaking of the devil. 343 00:14:03,190 --> 00:14:04,190 I'm not a devil. 344 00:14:04,320 --> 00:14:05,220 I'm not a devil. 345 00:14:05,300 --> 00:14:05,840 What did you say? 346 00:14:06,020 --> 00:14:06,740 I'll show you a devil bitch. 347 00:14:06,940 --> 00:14:10,260 So his... We already knew his jaw was weakened. 348 00:14:10,340 --> 00:14:12,260 Because he had already had several teeth removed. 349 00:14:13,090 --> 00:14:13,740 He had... 350 00:14:13,890 --> 00:14:15,020 You know gum disease. 351 00:14:15,160 --> 00:14:18,140 And he had his yearly checkup. 352 00:14:18,220 --> 00:14:20,260 He had his dental work done. 353 00:14:20,420 --> 00:14:22,820 And you can probably Google it. 354 00:14:23,830 --> 00:14:28,340 Chihuahuas are really notoriously terrible for dental health. 355 00:14:28,540 --> 00:14:30,160 And so she broke his jaw. 356 00:14:30,820 --> 00:14:34,740 And so that's when we thought we were going to have to put him down. 357 00:14:35,020 --> 00:14:36,380 Because it was like oh my God. 358 00:14:36,420 --> 00:14:37,420 He's in so much pain. 359 00:14:37,810 --> 00:14:39,490 And he stayed overnight at the vet's house. 360 00:14:39,560 --> 00:14:40,200 At the vet's house. 361 00:14:40,280 --> 00:14:41,280 At the vet's office. 362 00:14:41,415 --> 00:14:42,520 Yeah the vet took him home. 363 00:14:42,521 --> 00:14:44,020 Bridgeport Veterinary. 364 00:14:44,540 --> 00:14:46,040 They are amazing. 365 00:14:46,300 --> 00:14:48,520 If you are in this area you need an emergency vet. 366 00:14:48,620 --> 00:14:51,680 They do have office hours that are not 24 hour. 367 00:14:51,980 --> 00:14:55,060 But if you have an emergency and you need somebody checked out. 368 00:14:55,535 --> 00:14:57,160 They will totally take care of you. 369 00:14:57,420 --> 00:15:00,500 Remember the doctor was saying that he would be perfectly fine. 370 00:15:00,640 --> 00:15:03,840 Because their dog also had the exact same issue. 371 00:15:03,841 --> 00:15:04,340 That was the specialist. 372 00:15:04,760 --> 00:15:08,020 That was the one at... I can't remember the name. 373 00:15:08,140 --> 00:15:11,520 It was the one on the other side of the road from them. 374 00:15:11,521 --> 00:15:13,820 And that's the thing. 375 00:15:13,860 --> 00:15:16,680 He spent the overnight at the vet. 376 00:15:17,680 --> 00:15:20,460 And they were like we need you to take him to the specialist. 377 00:15:20,800 --> 00:15:24,300 And it happened to be the same office for the dentist. 378 00:15:24,400 --> 00:15:26,740 As the office for the cardiologist. 379 00:15:27,370 --> 00:15:28,650 Where we had taken PETA earlier. 380 00:15:29,980 --> 00:15:30,980 And we were... 381 00:15:31,330 --> 00:15:33,720 As parents we were preparing the kids. 382 00:15:33,840 --> 00:15:36,300 Like he may not come home from this. 383 00:15:36,790 --> 00:15:37,790 Just so you know. 384 00:15:38,360 --> 00:15:41,040 We might have to say... So we all went together. 385 00:15:41,041 --> 00:15:42,340 To take him in. 386 00:15:42,590 --> 00:15:45,760 Well the original conversation actually happened in your bedroom. 387 00:15:45,880 --> 00:15:46,740 We were sitting around. 388 00:15:46,880 --> 00:15:47,320 We were like... 389 00:15:47,720 --> 00:15:48,540 What are we going to do? 390 00:15:48,620 --> 00:15:49,620 What is best for him? 391 00:15:49,910 --> 00:15:51,336 It was the night that he stayed over. 392 00:15:51,360 --> 00:15:51,460 Yeah. 393 00:15:51,500 --> 00:15:51,740 Yeah. 394 00:15:51,815 --> 00:15:56,100 So the next day everyone went to the appointment with the dental specialist. 395 00:15:56,140 --> 00:15:56,580 Sorry. 396 00:15:56,680 --> 00:15:58,021 I've got... I've been drinking soda. 397 00:15:58,820 --> 00:15:59,860 Soda pop there bud. 398 00:15:59,861 --> 00:16:02,380 And so it was really shocking when the... 399 00:16:03,500 --> 00:16:04,500 Love it. 400 00:16:04,780 --> 00:16:07,660 The butch lesbian vet walked in. 401 00:16:07,920 --> 00:16:09,940 And she's like is this Eddie? 402 00:16:09,941 --> 00:16:10,941 And we're like yeah. 403 00:16:11,180 --> 00:16:12,180 He... 404 00:16:12,690 --> 00:16:16,700 You know his older sister... Or his younger sister actually smacked him. 405 00:16:16,780 --> 00:16:19,480 And he you know smashed his face. 406 00:16:19,660 --> 00:16:21,160 And you know what are we going to do? 407 00:16:21,260 --> 00:16:24,080 And she took a look at the x-rays. 408 00:16:24,140 --> 00:16:24,840 Took a look at him. 409 00:16:24,860 --> 00:16:27,320 And she was like oh this happened to my Chihuahua. 410 00:16:27,420 --> 00:16:28,420 He's going to be fine. 411 00:16:28,920 --> 00:16:30,940 And I think we were all just stunned. 412 00:16:31,000 --> 00:16:33,380 We went... Oh thank God. 413 00:16:33,600 --> 00:16:34,040 What? 414 00:16:34,475 --> 00:16:37,980 And she explained what she was going to take out the last remaining two... 415 00:16:37,981 --> 00:16:39,840 One tooth on each side of the jaw. 416 00:16:39,841 --> 00:16:41,800 Stitch up the gums. 417 00:16:41,801 --> 00:16:43,860 Give him a couple days to kind of recover. 418 00:16:44,650 --> 00:16:45,970 And that he was going to be fine. 419 00:16:46,190 --> 00:16:48,600 And I think we were all really shocked. 420 00:16:48,870 --> 00:16:51,300 And very happy because he's such a sweet boy. 421 00:16:51,540 --> 00:16:53,380 And he loves it when you call him buddy. 422 00:16:53,540 --> 00:16:54,000 Hey buddy. 423 00:16:54,400 --> 00:16:58,680 The thing is that the house will never... Will not be the same without him. 424 00:16:58,780 --> 00:17:03,800 Because he's the little demented dog that walks around eating everything. 425 00:17:04,120 --> 00:17:06,940 And so we've given each of our dogs a voice. 426 00:17:06,941 --> 00:17:14,260 And we... For some reason we have made him like the old Jewish guy. 427 00:17:14,600 --> 00:17:16,860 Well I think it's like old Vietnam vet. 428 00:17:17,120 --> 00:17:18,280 Well... Yeah. 429 00:17:18,420 --> 00:17:19,420 Both. 430 00:17:19,860 --> 00:17:23,380 Sometimes he's a Jewish guy and sometimes he's a Vietnam vet. 431 00:17:23,480 --> 00:17:26,160 Especially when he looks shocked at something. 432 00:17:26,280 --> 00:17:29,240 It's like... Back in my day we didn't have legs. 433 00:17:29,300 --> 00:17:30,300 We didn't have legs. 434 00:17:30,720 --> 00:17:31,820 We were... 435 00:17:32,120 --> 00:17:34,460 My mom was helping. 436 00:17:35,360 --> 00:17:36,360 You were helping. 437 00:17:36,560 --> 00:17:37,720 You know who that is. 438 00:17:37,760 --> 00:17:38,020 I'm me. 439 00:17:38,140 --> 00:17:38,480 Yes. 440 00:17:38,481 --> 00:17:39,481 Your mom. 441 00:17:39,750 --> 00:17:42,860 So you were helping me fix the Traeger. 442 00:17:43,480 --> 00:17:46,400 And I was on the ground and I was trying to get up. 443 00:17:46,460 --> 00:17:49,520 And I was like... Back in my day we didn't have legs. 444 00:17:49,780 --> 00:17:51,120 And I lost my shit. 445 00:17:51,700 --> 00:17:53,380 And I was still on the floor. 446 00:17:53,640 --> 00:17:53,940 Yup. 447 00:17:54,000 --> 00:17:55,000 Yup. 448 00:17:55,380 --> 00:18:00,480 And so he's... But plus he's just been around our family for 14 years now. 449 00:18:00,720 --> 00:18:00,840 Yeah. 450 00:18:00,880 --> 00:18:01,320 2011. 451 00:18:01,520 --> 00:18:03,920 He just... There's always been Eddie. 452 00:18:04,080 --> 00:18:04,620 And so... 453 00:18:04,621 --> 00:18:11,340 Watching him now he's degraded quite a bit where he walks into a room sometimes and 454 00:18:11,790 --> 00:18:15,700 he just stands there looking at nothing or he'll follow somebody's feet. 455 00:18:16,050 --> 00:18:18,940 And then all of a sudden everyone's running into him. 456 00:18:19,120 --> 00:18:22,300 And so at that point where do you draw the line? 457 00:18:22,420 --> 00:18:26,940 This is one of my topics that I actually had put into my notes. 458 00:18:27,540 --> 00:18:33,420 Where do you draw the line of how old is too old for a dog or a cat? 459 00:18:33,421 --> 00:18:42,020 I think that doesn't... I feel like a vet should be like, your dog is in pain. 460 00:18:42,200 --> 00:18:43,760 They won't do that though. 461 00:18:44,020 --> 00:18:47,870 They'll say your dog is... I cut you off too early. 462 00:18:47,960 --> 00:18:50,880 But they'll say like, well they could be in pain. 463 00:18:51,100 --> 00:18:53,520 Or they could be just fine and demented. 464 00:18:53,580 --> 00:18:55,340 Or blah blah blah blah blah. 465 00:18:56,760 --> 00:18:59,160 But I'm gonna have to pee again in a second. 466 00:18:59,200 --> 00:19:02,820 So maybe we... Let's take another commercial break. 467 00:19:02,940 --> 00:19:03,400 Okay. 468 00:19:03,420 --> 00:19:04,476 Let's take a pee break now. 469 00:19:04,500 --> 00:19:04,900 This time. 470 00:19:04,940 --> 00:19:05,160 Yeah. 471 00:19:05,520 --> 00:19:06,520 13 minutes in. 472 00:19:06,740 --> 00:19:07,740 Yeah. 473 00:19:08,020 --> 00:19:09,020 Bye. 474 00:19:21,390 --> 00:19:22,890 And we are back from the break. 475 00:19:22,930 --> 00:19:24,390 Hopefully you enjoyed that music. 476 00:19:25,130 --> 00:19:26,130 I love it. 477 00:19:26,290 --> 00:19:30,770 So we left off talking about our demented old boy, of course. 478 00:19:31,250 --> 00:19:31,770 Right. 479 00:19:31,830 --> 00:19:38,050 And after we had unfortunately had to get Jake rehomed. 480 00:19:39,050 --> 00:19:42,810 Eddie, we lived for a short while in an apartment. 481 00:19:42,811 --> 00:19:46,410 And then I had... A really short time in retrospect. 482 00:19:46,450 --> 00:19:47,630 It was like eight months. 483 00:19:48,210 --> 00:19:48,810 Yeah. 484 00:19:49,010 --> 00:19:49,370 Yeah. 485 00:19:49,540 --> 00:19:54,070 And then I had a surgery and Rhonda helped me recover from it. 486 00:19:54,940 --> 00:20:00,670 And everyone had moved into her house that she had recently bought. 487 00:20:00,990 --> 00:20:01,990 Not recently. 488 00:20:01,991 --> 00:20:03,050 Like just bought. 489 00:20:03,090 --> 00:20:04,950 She had just... She bought it in July. 490 00:20:05,010 --> 00:20:07,190 Well, she bought it in July 2013. 491 00:20:08,140 --> 00:20:08,910 We all... 492 00:20:09,160 --> 00:20:12,510 We decided to officially move in about May of 14. 493 00:20:14,020 --> 00:20:15,210 That sounds about... No. 494 00:20:15,290 --> 00:20:18,750 I think it was a little bit earlier because we got the Xbox. 495 00:20:19,170 --> 00:20:19,450 It might have been. 496 00:20:19,850 --> 00:20:21,170 You would remember that. 497 00:20:21,640 --> 00:20:22,640 We got that in April. 498 00:20:23,010 --> 00:20:24,490 I remember I had my surgery in March. 499 00:20:25,330 --> 00:20:25,810 Yeah. 500 00:20:25,830 --> 00:20:26,370 Of 14. 501 00:20:26,470 --> 00:20:28,190 We probably moved in around April 2014. 502 00:20:28,430 --> 00:20:31,570 So she... You know, it was really super sweet. 503 00:20:32,890 --> 00:20:33,890 Let's get sidetracked. 504 00:20:34,210 --> 00:20:35,210 Sidetracked. 505 00:20:36,930 --> 00:20:41,130 She asked me if I could stay here while I was healing from my surgery. 506 00:20:41,250 --> 00:20:41,610 Yeah. 507 00:20:41,611 --> 00:20:46,350 And so, of course, all the children, the rats that we had at that point, 508 00:20:46,670 --> 00:20:52,730 the Eddie that we had at that point, we all came to live at her house that she 509 00:20:52,731 --> 00:20:55,350 had just purchased less than a year before. 510 00:20:56,205 --> 00:20:58,050 And we all stayed here. 511 00:20:58,150 --> 00:20:59,150 We all slept here. 512 00:20:59,230 --> 00:21:03,410 We had bunk beds in the kids' room and everybody was happy and... 513 00:21:03,411 --> 00:21:05,050 She set that shit up. 514 00:21:05,290 --> 00:21:05,450 She's... 515 00:21:05,550 --> 00:21:06,550 Rhonda's good. 516 00:21:06,860 --> 00:21:07,730 Like she's good like that. 517 00:21:07,731 --> 00:21:08,130 Rhonda's more than good. 518 00:21:08,450 --> 00:21:09,130 Rhonda's great. 519 00:21:09,330 --> 00:21:09,470 Hell yeah. 520 00:21:10,060 --> 00:21:11,830 Rhonda's the shit, just so you know. 521 00:21:11,870 --> 00:21:12,130 She's the shit. 522 00:21:12,230 --> 00:21:13,230 She's the shit. 523 00:21:13,410 --> 00:21:14,330 She's the shit. 524 00:21:14,370 --> 00:21:19,070 So when I eventually said, you know, it was like six or eight weeks after I had 525 00:21:19,071 --> 00:21:21,263 my surgery, I said, I think I could probably... 526 00:21:21,264 --> 00:21:23,330 we could probably go ahead and move home. 527 00:21:23,490 --> 00:21:25,470 I think we need to leave your house alone. 528 00:21:25,590 --> 00:21:27,830 And she's like, yeah, why don't you not? 529 00:21:28,960 --> 00:21:29,870 Like, why don't you stay here? 530 00:21:29,871 --> 00:21:32,950 Why don't we just do the lesbian thing and just move in way too early? 531 00:21:33,850 --> 00:21:36,050 With no U-Haul whatsoever. 532 00:21:36,550 --> 00:21:38,050 No, we did use a U-Haul. 533 00:21:38,051 --> 00:21:38,750 No. 534 00:21:38,870 --> 00:21:39,510 We didn't? 535 00:21:39,511 --> 00:21:40,511 We did not. 536 00:21:41,070 --> 00:21:42,190 We did not use a U-Haul. 537 00:21:42,270 --> 00:21:43,470 We didn't have a lot of stuff. 538 00:21:43,510 --> 00:21:45,570 Until we bought the big bed for our room. 539 00:21:45,610 --> 00:21:45,750 Yeah. 540 00:21:45,950 --> 00:21:47,026 We didn't have a lot of stuff. 541 00:21:47,050 --> 00:21:47,390 We didn't. 542 00:21:47,391 --> 00:21:47,710 No. 543 00:21:47,711 --> 00:21:50,390 Because we had kept most of that at the old house. 544 00:21:50,430 --> 00:21:50,690 Yeah. 545 00:21:51,015 --> 00:21:54,140 We left a lot at your dad's house because I didn't want to think... 546 00:21:55,170 --> 00:21:58,930 you know, me being me, I didn't want him to feel like we had stripped him of a life. 547 00:21:59,740 --> 00:22:01,250 Except he thought that anyway. 548 00:22:01,590 --> 00:22:01,910 He did. 549 00:22:02,050 --> 00:22:03,890 And, and, and I can't control that part. 550 00:22:04,010 --> 00:22:05,890 There were, there were things... Sorry. 551 00:22:06,090 --> 00:22:11,070 What I can, what I could control is what I felt was appropriate to take and leave. 552 00:22:11,130 --> 00:22:11,490 Absolutely. 553 00:22:11,491 --> 00:22:14,730 So the things you guys needed, we took. 554 00:22:15,150 --> 00:22:24,151 And I left a lot of great things there that had exhibited our life up to that point. 555 00:22:24,205 --> 00:22:25,205 But you know what? 556 00:22:25,230 --> 00:22:30,490 I needed to make a choice to move on and move forward. 557 00:22:31,150 --> 00:22:32,790 And that's what I did. 558 00:22:32,830 --> 00:22:34,370 I left your guys' baby books. 559 00:22:34,371 --> 00:22:37,685 Your baby albums, like all of that stuff there 560 00:22:37,686 --> 00:22:40,590 because that's what was important to him. 561 00:22:41,030 --> 00:22:45,310 What was important to me was that you guys were in a healthy environment. 562 00:22:46,670 --> 00:22:49,330 Photos are really the only thing that are important to him. 563 00:22:49,410 --> 00:22:52,371 In my personal opinion... It does feel like that, doesn't it? 564 00:22:52,410 --> 00:22:57,470 As someone who has lived around him, he prefers the photos that perform the 565 00:22:57,471 --> 00:23:00,390 life that he wants to show everyone that he has. 566 00:23:00,570 --> 00:23:01,570 That portray. 567 00:23:01,610 --> 00:23:01,890 Yes. 568 00:23:01,930 --> 00:23:03,270 That's what I was trying to think of. 569 00:23:03,271 --> 00:23:04,791 That's what you were looking for, yeah. 570 00:23:04,955 --> 00:23:07,750 Like we would be on a trip and he's like, let's take a photo. 571 00:23:07,870 --> 00:23:09,030 I'm like, I'm enjoying it. 572 00:23:09,070 --> 00:23:09,910 He's like, let's take a photo. 573 00:23:10,090 --> 00:23:10,750 And I'm like, okay. 574 00:23:10,930 --> 00:23:11,290 Okay. 575 00:23:11,750 --> 00:23:15,770 And see, I'm the opposite where I'm just like, are you digging a hole over there? 576 00:23:16,010 --> 00:23:17,190 Dig that fucking hole. 577 00:23:17,230 --> 00:23:17,650 Go ahead. 578 00:23:17,810 --> 00:23:19,530 I'll take a picture of you digging the hole. 579 00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:20,766 We're going to take this picture over here. 580 00:23:20,790 --> 00:23:21,790 You just keep going. 581 00:23:21,830 --> 00:23:22,450 It doesn't matter. 582 00:23:22,590 --> 00:23:26,190 You were someone who would take pictures of us doing real things. 583 00:23:26,530 --> 00:23:30,710 Where you would take the picture while we're doing what we were already doing. 584 00:23:30,950 --> 00:23:31,290 Yeah. 585 00:23:31,291 --> 00:23:33,170 Instead of like... Keep doing your thing. 586 00:23:33,171 --> 00:23:33,450 ...performative. 587 00:23:33,870 --> 00:23:36,911 There were a few things where it was like, oh, we should get a picture of that. 588 00:23:36,935 --> 00:23:44,570 It was 2016, 2017, we went to a wax museum and there was a picture of Johnny Depp. 589 00:23:44,571 --> 00:23:44,930 In Newport. 590 00:23:45,450 --> 00:23:47,550 Johnny Depp wax figure. 591 00:23:47,690 --> 00:23:47,850 Yeah. 592 00:23:47,851 --> 00:23:49,206 And you're like, oh, take a picture. 593 00:23:49,230 --> 00:23:49,790 Let's take a picture. 594 00:23:50,171 --> 00:23:51,171 I Remembers 595 00:23:51,430 --> 00:23:52,430 That was a fun trip. 596 00:23:52,870 --> 00:23:53,370 Oh, yeah. 597 00:23:53,670 --> 00:23:54,970 That was so fun. 598 00:23:55,070 --> 00:23:56,310 I want to go there again. 599 00:23:56,710 --> 00:23:58,510 But did we just get... 600 00:23:58,892 --> 00:24:01,334 Sidetracked. 601 00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:02,730 So we were talking about... The dogs. 602 00:24:02,731 --> 00:24:03,410 We were talking about the dogs. 603 00:24:03,411 --> 00:24:04,130 We need to talk about the dogs. 604 00:24:04,131 --> 00:24:05,190 So let's go back to that. 605 00:24:05,270 --> 00:24:05,610 Yes. 606 00:24:05,611 --> 00:24:05,750 Yes. 607 00:24:06,090 --> 00:24:07,090 Okay. 608 00:24:07,140 --> 00:24:09,570 This is why it's so hard to make chapters for this show. 609 00:24:10,050 --> 00:24:12,210 Because we jump around so frequently. 610 00:24:12,450 --> 00:24:12,890 Yeah. 611 00:24:12,891 --> 00:24:13,410 And we've... 612 00:24:13,411 --> 00:24:18,670 We actually have to listen back when we take a quick break, mostly because I'm 613 00:24:18,671 --> 00:24:22,290 being... I'm being having cocktails and she doesn't listen. 614 00:24:22,390 --> 00:24:26,390 Is why we have to listen back at what we have been talking about. 615 00:24:26,410 --> 00:24:29,210 Well, the thing is, is I do listen, but it's... 616 00:24:29,310 --> 00:24:29,950 In the moment. 617 00:24:29,951 --> 00:24:33,110 My memory bank is very small. 618 00:24:33,190 --> 00:24:35,850 You're listening in the moment to have a conversation. 619 00:24:35,950 --> 00:24:36,350 Yeah. 620 00:24:36,351 --> 00:24:37,391 And then that just passes. 621 00:24:37,590 --> 00:24:37,790 Yeah. 622 00:24:37,980 --> 00:24:38,690 And I get it. 623 00:24:38,865 --> 00:24:40,150 Because I like to be present. 624 00:24:40,370 --> 00:24:40,770 Yeah. 625 00:24:40,771 --> 00:24:43,250 And if it's not very important... 626 00:24:43,750 --> 00:24:44,610 I get it. 627 00:24:44,730 --> 00:24:45,450 I get it. 628 00:24:45,470 --> 00:24:46,550 We're talking about things... 629 00:24:46,551 --> 00:24:50,450 What we were talking about are things that, like, I know already. 630 00:24:50,890 --> 00:24:51,110 Sure. 631 00:24:51,420 --> 00:24:52,890 So, like, I already got that. 632 00:24:53,350 --> 00:24:56,970 Oh, see, I do that all the time when I just start in the middle of a conversation 633 00:24:56,971 --> 00:25:01,230 with somebody who... Who has not been in the conversation with me. 634 00:25:01,370 --> 00:25:01,610 Me. 635 00:25:02,050 --> 00:25:02,370 Yeah. 636 00:25:02,450 --> 00:25:02,930 Yeah. 637 00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:06,750 It's like... And they're like, I'm not sure what we're talking about. 638 00:25:07,120 --> 00:25:08,120 I think that's just ADHD. 639 00:25:08,830 --> 00:25:10,290 I am sure it's ADHD. 640 00:25:11,020 --> 00:25:17,430 Like, the older I get, like, the more I realize how ridiculously ADHD I am. 641 00:25:17,431 --> 00:25:17,610 Yeah. 642 00:25:17,810 --> 00:25:19,170 You could just get diagnosed. 643 00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:21,950 What are they going to do at this point, though? 644 00:25:22,490 --> 00:25:22,970 Adderall. 645 00:25:23,430 --> 00:25:24,430 Barely know her. 646 00:25:24,610 --> 00:25:25,250 Jesus Christ. 647 00:25:25,270 --> 00:25:26,450 I wasn't even thinking about that. 648 00:25:26,451 --> 00:25:26,870 Sorry. 649 00:25:26,871 --> 00:25:27,450 It took me a second. 650 00:25:27,630 --> 00:25:28,090 Adderall. 651 00:25:28,270 --> 00:25:28,670 Yeah. 652 00:25:28,850 --> 00:25:30,990 So, let's continue with the dogs. 653 00:25:31,090 --> 00:25:31,950 We had Eddie and Peta. 654 00:25:31,951 --> 00:25:32,730 We got sidetracked again. 655 00:25:32,810 --> 00:25:33,930 And we had Eddie and Peta. 656 00:25:34,050 --> 00:25:34,390 Mm-hmm. 657 00:25:34,540 --> 00:25:39,830 And then in September of the year, I mean, nobody's dying at this point. 658 00:25:40,050 --> 00:25:40,250 Yeah. 659 00:25:40,570 --> 00:25:43,610 We added... You said September of the year. 660 00:25:44,010 --> 00:25:44,430 No. 661 00:25:44,431 --> 00:25:45,431 It was 2019... 662 00:25:47,210 --> 00:25:48,210 For who? 663 00:25:48,470 --> 00:25:49,470 2018 for Chuy. 664 00:25:50,330 --> 00:25:50,810 2019? 665 00:25:50,990 --> 00:25:51,330 No. 666 00:25:51,490 --> 00:25:51,710 No. 667 00:25:51,750 --> 00:25:53,070 2018 for Chuy. 668 00:25:53,190 --> 00:25:53,970 You said 2019. 669 00:25:54,010 --> 00:25:54,690 I know. 670 00:25:54,710 --> 00:25:55,710 And I corrected myself. 671 00:25:55,870 --> 00:25:56,130 Okay. 672 00:25:56,280 --> 00:25:57,450 Well, Jesus. 673 00:25:57,635 --> 00:25:58,635 Are you not listening? 674 00:25:58,850 --> 00:25:59,190 Hello? 675 00:25:59,310 --> 00:25:59,830 I am. 676 00:25:59,950 --> 00:26:01,630 But I only heard 20... Whatever. 677 00:26:01,890 --> 00:26:02,270 Okay. 678 00:26:02,330 --> 00:26:02,850 Jesus. 679 00:26:02,851 --> 00:26:04,790 So, we had Eddie and Peta. 680 00:26:04,950 --> 00:26:05,950 Yeah. 681 00:26:06,220 --> 00:26:08,330 For a couple of years, actually. 682 00:26:09,090 --> 00:26:12,430 And then we were like, let's go look for a big dog. 683 00:26:12,750 --> 00:26:13,310 Mm-hmm. 684 00:26:13,311 --> 00:26:16,370 And we... The lumpiest one. 685 00:26:16,410 --> 00:26:20,690 We met with a dog at Multnomah County Animal Shelter. 686 00:26:20,770 --> 00:26:21,270 Mm-hmm. 687 00:26:21,271 --> 00:26:23,790 And Eddie cannot control his mouth. 688 00:26:23,910 --> 00:26:24,390 No. 689 00:26:24,391 --> 00:26:29,454 So, he squeals and barks and yells and he's super excited 690 00:26:29,455 --> 00:26:32,790 until he gets to smell somebody and he chills down. 691 00:26:32,970 --> 00:26:33,970 He just... He doesn't care. 692 00:26:34,090 --> 00:26:35,476 He's just like totally fine with it. 693 00:26:35,500 --> 00:26:36,690 Or he gets horny. 694 00:26:37,170 --> 00:26:38,170 Well, yeah. 695 00:26:38,270 --> 00:26:38,810 He does. 696 00:26:39,115 --> 00:26:41,690 He has been fixed since he was like six months old. 697 00:26:41,830 --> 00:26:42,090 Oh, yeah. 698 00:26:42,445 --> 00:26:43,445 But he do love a hump. 699 00:26:43,910 --> 00:26:44,530 Oh, yeah. 700 00:26:44,531 --> 00:26:48,830 So, after we scared the shit out of a beautiful little pity... Oh, yeah. 701 00:26:49,445 --> 00:26:54,310 ...we went to the place called Family Dog's New Life. 702 00:26:54,311 --> 00:26:57,890 Now, New Asher... or New Life Asher House. 703 00:26:57,970 --> 00:26:58,850 New Life Asher House. 704 00:26:58,950 --> 00:27:02,250 Thank you for looking that up because I was wondering about that. 705 00:27:02,330 --> 00:27:03,050 It's on Perla's website. 706 00:27:03,051 --> 00:27:03,310 Yeah. 707 00:27:03,311 --> 00:27:03,730 Thank you. 708 00:27:04,270 --> 00:27:07,730 You can find... I'll put their website down in the description. 709 00:27:08,150 --> 00:27:08,250 You can link up? 710 00:27:08,251 --> 00:27:08,370 Awesome. 711 00:27:08,410 --> 00:27:09,610 They're amazing. 712 00:27:09,970 --> 00:27:10,310 Oh. 713 00:27:10,610 --> 00:27:13,690 I was... We're not even done with the amazing parts of the conversation. 714 00:27:13,770 --> 00:27:14,050 Oh, yeah. 715 00:27:14,090 --> 00:27:16,670 So, let's finish this part and... Because we got... Oh. 716 00:27:16,890 --> 00:27:17,750 Sorry about that. 717 00:27:17,790 --> 00:27:19,310 I just kicked it out of my arm. 718 00:27:19,470 --> 00:27:19,910 We got a little sidetracked. 719 00:27:19,911 --> 00:27:21,310 Did we get sidetracked? 720 00:27:23,580 --> 00:27:24,290 A little bit. 721 00:27:24,291 --> 00:27:24,370 A little bit. 722 00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:28,241 So, after we scared the shit out of this gorgeous pity at Willamette... 723 00:27:28,391 --> 00:27:32,830 or Willamette, no, sorry, Multnomah County Animal Shelter, we went to... 724 00:27:33,950 --> 00:27:34,950 New Life Asher House. 725 00:27:35,050 --> 00:27:37,530 At that point, it was Family Dog's New Life. 726 00:27:37,630 --> 00:27:37,830 Yeah. 727 00:27:37,831 --> 00:27:39,271 So, we went to New Life Asher House. 728 00:27:39,800 --> 00:27:43,910 And I walked in there and I was like, look, I'm going to be super honest with you. 729 00:27:43,970 --> 00:27:45,390 We have our dogs with us. 730 00:27:47,265 --> 00:27:51,870 One of our dogs can't control himself and he just freaks out about everything. 731 00:27:51,970 --> 00:27:53,530 Do you have a dog here? 732 00:27:54,155 --> 00:27:57,630 This does not give a shit about any other dogs. 733 00:27:58,655 --> 00:28:01,670 And the girl behind the counter went, oh my God. 734 00:28:01,671 --> 00:28:02,410 Yes, we do. 735 00:28:02,510 --> 00:28:03,190 Come on in. 736 00:28:03,230 --> 00:28:04,070 Bring everybody in. 737 00:28:04,170 --> 00:28:05,430 Let's meet this dog. 738 00:28:05,550 --> 00:28:05,810 Yeah. 739 00:28:06,010 --> 00:28:08,190 And so, we brought everybody into a little tiny room that 740 00:28:08,191 --> 00:28:12,790 smelled weird and had like two chairs and a hard seat. 741 00:28:13,030 --> 00:28:15,010 Thank you for mentioning the smell. 742 00:28:15,150 --> 00:28:15,510 Yeah. 743 00:28:15,511 --> 00:28:15,550 Yeah. 744 00:28:15,630 --> 00:28:16,290 I mean, this dog. 745 00:28:16,450 --> 00:28:17,490 So, yeah. 746 00:28:17,630 --> 00:28:19,550 So, I'm going to explain the smell. 747 00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:20,800 But I understand. 748 00:28:20,930 --> 00:28:22,470 I'm not saying it's a bad thing. 749 00:28:22,670 --> 00:28:25,090 But anybody that has dogs knows that smell. 750 00:28:25,310 --> 00:28:29,830 It was urine with a mixture of an enzyme solution. 751 00:28:31,430 --> 00:28:31,950 Yeah. 752 00:28:31,990 --> 00:28:36,590 It was someone peed many times and someone tried many times to clean it up. 753 00:28:37,010 --> 00:28:40,870 And I'm glad that they... I don't think they're at the same location anymore. 754 00:28:41,560 --> 00:28:42,590 I think they moved. 755 00:28:43,010 --> 00:28:44,646 He actually might be at the same location. 756 00:28:44,670 --> 00:28:45,030 Oh, okay. 757 00:28:45,150 --> 00:28:47,450 But how much can you clean a building? 758 00:28:48,260 --> 00:28:51,131 Like, you can't like... Take the walls. 759 00:28:51,430 --> 00:28:52,430 Yeah. 760 00:28:52,810 --> 00:28:53,810 Flamethrowers? 761 00:28:54,060 --> 00:28:55,270 Like, that's going to be it. 762 00:28:55,350 --> 00:28:56,350 Arson. 763 00:28:56,770 --> 00:28:57,410 Problem solved. 764 00:28:57,670 --> 00:28:57,990 Arson? 765 00:28:58,010 --> 00:28:58,570 Burn the place down. 766 00:28:58,810 --> 00:28:59,810 No arson. 767 00:28:59,970 --> 00:29:00,410 No. 768 00:29:00,510 --> 00:29:02,090 Because they keep dogs long term. 769 00:29:02,450 --> 00:29:02,850 Well, no. 770 00:29:02,870 --> 00:29:03,990 They move the dogs. 771 00:29:04,390 --> 00:29:04,410 No arson. 772 00:29:04,411 --> 00:29:07,630 Oh, well, pre-approved arson, I guess. 773 00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:08,810 Don't just burn dogs. 774 00:29:08,830 --> 00:29:10,110 So, they bring this dog in. 775 00:29:10,310 --> 00:29:12,670 And he's this... He's got a gray body. 776 00:29:12,770 --> 00:29:18,330 He's got a dark head with some weird markings on his eyebrows. 777 00:29:18,770 --> 00:29:19,110 Yeah. 778 00:29:19,150 --> 00:29:21,010 He's got little... Little... Little... Little... Little... Little... Little lips. 779 00:29:21,510 --> 00:29:23,550 And this pointy-ass tail. 780 00:29:24,150 --> 00:29:25,490 And like... A weapon. 781 00:29:25,650 --> 00:29:26,770 17 elbows. 782 00:29:27,230 --> 00:29:27,370 Yeah. 783 00:29:27,790 --> 00:29:31,470 Four legs, 17, possibly 32 elbows. 784 00:29:32,740 --> 00:29:36,810 And he just loves up on everybody, and his name is CeeLo. 785 00:29:38,010 --> 00:29:38,530 Green. 786 00:29:38,910 --> 00:29:40,110 Look... Dun dun dun. 787 00:29:40,270 --> 00:29:42,250 CeeLo Gray, I guess. 788 00:29:42,350 --> 00:29:42,630 Dun dun dun dun. 789 00:29:42,631 --> 00:29:45,770 And so, we're like, oh, my God, he's fucking amazing. 790 00:29:45,790 --> 00:29:50,470 And they're like, okay, well, you need to go buy this $400 animal care. 791 00:29:50,471 --> 00:29:55,730 ...animal cage, and then you have to get a... this sort of... a martingale collar 792 00:29:55,731 --> 00:29:59,150 is what they described, and it's fantastic. 793 00:30:00,380 --> 00:30:03,270 For... please, I love martingale collars, honestly. 794 00:30:03,350 --> 00:30:08,911 For a dog with a square head and a tiny neck, or a tiny neck and a big... 795 00:30:08,971 --> 00:30:09,990 wait, tiny head? 796 00:30:10,180 --> 00:30:11,180 Square neck? 797 00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:15,490 Anyway, if it's nice... What is a martingale collar? 798 00:30:15,491 --> 00:30:16,410 A martingale collar is... 799 00:30:16,510 --> 00:30:17,190 The chain? 800 00:30:17,370 --> 00:30:22,150 It's similar to a... I'm using air quotes, choke collar. 801 00:30:26,590 --> 00:30:34,590 Essentially, it has a nylon necklace, and then a chain loop that pulls tight, 802 00:30:35,090 --> 00:30:38,890 so that they can't slip it over their ears when they're backing up. 803 00:30:39,620 --> 00:30:41,230 So it doesn't hurt their neck at all. 804 00:30:41,290 --> 00:30:43,270 It doesn't hurt their neck, doesn't hurt their jaw. 805 00:30:43,271 --> 00:30:46,590 It just stops them from being able to slip the collar. 806 00:30:47,300 --> 00:30:53,530 So, in essence, helps them from getting hit by a car, which happens a lot. 807 00:30:54,290 --> 00:30:54,790 Unfortunately. 808 00:30:54,791 --> 00:31:00,350 And I'm just going to say, for me, personally, I don't think it works very well. 809 00:31:00,690 --> 00:31:01,110 The martingale? 810 00:31:01,540 --> 00:31:04,910 I've had Chuy slip out of the collar many times. 811 00:31:05,830 --> 00:31:08,430 He might not have had it tightened up. 812 00:31:08,590 --> 00:31:10,346 Well, because I'm always worried about hurting him. 813 00:31:10,370 --> 00:31:10,750 Of course. 814 00:31:10,990 --> 00:31:12,430 Because I... he's an older boy now. 815 00:31:12,550 --> 00:31:13,250 Yeah, now he is. 816 00:31:13,270 --> 00:31:19,870 The only time that I ever try to pull him with his collar, which is very rarely, 817 00:31:19,950 --> 00:31:23,810 is when he is trying to find something in the yard. 818 00:31:24,230 --> 00:31:26,890 He is a big rat killer. 819 00:31:27,150 --> 00:31:27,410 Yeah. 820 00:31:27,690 --> 00:31:28,710 Squirrel killer, too. 821 00:31:28,830 --> 00:31:30,890 Well, Sid's the squirrel killer. 822 00:31:31,110 --> 00:31:32,190 Because she can catch them. 823 00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:33,710 Let's get back to... let's circle back. 824 00:31:33,711 --> 00:31:34,050 Oh, we got sidetracked. 825 00:31:34,051 --> 00:31:35,426 Circle back, circle back, circle back. 826 00:31:35,450 --> 00:31:39,544 So they tell us we need to go buy a crate, because he 827 00:31:39,545 --> 00:31:42,590 is... he has separation anxiety, so he's destructive. 828 00:31:42,730 --> 00:31:43,050 Yeah. 829 00:31:43,270 --> 00:31:43,750 Put him in a crate. 830 00:31:43,850 --> 00:31:44,490 Put him in a crate. 831 00:31:44,725 --> 00:31:47,085 He's... he can't... you can't take him home without a crate. 832 00:31:47,130 --> 00:31:48,750 So we go buy all this stuff. 833 00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:50,570 An expensive ass crate. 834 00:31:50,690 --> 00:31:53,070 We bring this guy home, and he is fucking amazing. 835 00:31:53,270 --> 00:31:57,788 He's just adorable, and he has long nails, and so he 836 00:31:57,789 --> 00:32:01,390 has a weird gait, because his shoulders... He's... 837 00:32:01,490 --> 00:32:02,490 he's shaped weird. 838 00:32:02,530 --> 00:32:05,430 We'll put a... we'll put a few pictures up on the... on the website. 839 00:32:05,860 --> 00:32:06,986 We weren't going to get past that. 840 00:32:07,010 --> 00:32:08,290 I'm not going to joke. 841 00:32:08,430 --> 00:32:09,710 I'm not going to joke right now. 842 00:32:10,110 --> 00:32:11,910 Chu-Chu is my soul animal. 843 00:32:12,110 --> 00:32:12,490 Mm-hmm. 844 00:32:12,790 --> 00:32:13,790 He's my spirit animal. 845 00:32:13,990 --> 00:32:14,990 He's my soul mate. 846 00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:17,400 He is my very best friend in the whole wide world. 847 00:32:18,470 --> 00:32:18,990 Oh, no. 848 00:32:19,050 --> 00:32:20,050 Rhonda knows her place. 849 00:32:20,230 --> 00:32:20,470 Yeah. 850 00:32:20,570 --> 00:32:20,910 No. 851 00:32:21,430 --> 00:32:21,950 Yeah. 852 00:32:22,070 --> 00:32:23,230 But she's a hooman. 853 00:32:23,330 --> 00:32:25,490 Rhonda knows her place, that bitch. 854 00:32:25,530 --> 00:32:26,590 She's a hooman. 855 00:32:26,730 --> 00:32:27,730 She knows. 856 00:32:28,410 --> 00:32:30,710 And God, I fucking love this dog. 857 00:32:30,790 --> 00:32:34,330 I never felt a connection with an animal like that before. 858 00:32:34,990 --> 00:32:40,730 But we originally got him because the girls, Lindsay and the middle kid, 859 00:32:41,380 --> 00:32:43,255 wanted to have a dog to sleep with them, 860 00:32:43,256 --> 00:32:45,510 because the other two dogs always slept with us. 861 00:32:46,010 --> 00:32:48,317 And then, all of a sudden, he's like 74 elbows, 862 00:32:48,318 --> 00:32:51,051 and they're like, we can't sleep with this dog. 863 00:32:51,290 --> 00:32:57,450 So the first time we try to leave him alone in the crate, the kids go to school. 864 00:32:58,210 --> 00:33:00,846 Rhonda and I are home, and we hear this horrific noise 865 00:33:00,847 --> 00:33:03,430 coming from what was Lindsay's room at that time. 866 00:33:03,570 --> 00:33:04,570 Not my room. 867 00:33:04,720 --> 00:33:05,720 It was right here. 868 00:33:06,080 --> 00:33:08,230 And I stand outside the door, and I listen. 869 00:33:08,290 --> 00:33:10,770 And I just hear a lot of rattling and some crying. 870 00:33:10,771 --> 00:33:12,650 And I feel really bad. 871 00:33:12,750 --> 00:33:15,492 And so I finally, I just open the door, and I 872 00:33:15,493 --> 00:33:18,791 see some pink stuff on the side of the crate. 873 00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:21,370 And then I see Chuy looking panicky. 874 00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:26,035 And I realize after I get him out of the crate that 875 00:33:26,036 --> 00:33:28,550 he had been trying to chew his way out of the crate. 876 00:33:28,610 --> 00:33:31,670 The pink stuff on the side of the crate was his gum tissue. 877 00:33:32,765 --> 00:33:33,630 I didn't know that. 878 00:33:33,770 --> 00:33:34,130 Yeah. 879 00:33:34,610 --> 00:33:35,450 Oh, my God. 880 00:33:35,490 --> 00:33:35,810 Yeah. 881 00:33:35,811 --> 00:33:38,570 He had tried to chew his way out because he was scared. 882 00:33:40,010 --> 00:33:40,690 And because... 883 00:33:40,770 --> 00:33:43,449 Because of the way his shoulders are, and he has a sway 884 00:33:43,450 --> 00:33:48,310 back, he can't lay down flat unless he has enough space. 885 00:33:48,470 --> 00:33:50,729 And so when he did not have enough space to lay 886 00:33:50,730 --> 00:33:53,150 down, he panicked, and he tried to chew his way out. 887 00:33:53,290 --> 00:33:54,290 That's so sad. 888 00:33:54,340 --> 00:33:56,969 And so the first time we put him in the crate 889 00:33:56,970 --> 00:33:59,070 was also the last time we put him in the crate. 890 00:33:59,150 --> 00:33:59,810 And I gave it away. 891 00:33:59,830 --> 00:34:00,846 And then we gave away that crate. 892 00:34:00,870 --> 00:34:01,870 We gave it away. 893 00:34:02,190 --> 00:34:06,728 And from then on, we would turn on some sort of crime 894 00:34:06,729 --> 00:34:10,450 show in the living room and put blankets on the couch. 895 00:34:10,770 --> 00:34:12,250 And tell him to hop up there. 896 00:34:13,060 --> 00:34:15,180 And you stay here, and we'll be home in a few minutes. 897 00:34:15,830 --> 00:34:19,091 And we left him up there watching a crime show or 898 00:34:19,092 --> 00:34:22,530 listening to a crime show with the two little dogs. 899 00:34:24,630 --> 00:34:32,630 And then at one point, he pulled up a pack of hot dog buns off of the counter, 900 00:34:32,770 --> 00:34:34,670 and he took them over to one of the chairs. 901 00:34:35,090 --> 00:34:38,630 He put it up in the chair, but he didn't actually chew through it. 902 00:34:38,850 --> 00:34:40,150 So it was like... 903 00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:44,050 He was like, I can do this, but I don't know what to do with it now. 904 00:34:44,430 --> 00:34:49,950 I think maybe he was worried that if he did that, like opened it up, that he would 905 00:34:50,050 --> 00:34:50,730 get in trouble. 906 00:34:50,890 --> 00:34:51,150 Sure. 907 00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:57,150 And he was definitely abused in his previous home. 908 00:34:57,425 --> 00:35:03,030 I think he had unrealistic expectations of him, for sure. 909 00:35:03,550 --> 00:35:04,030 Yeah. 910 00:35:04,031 --> 00:35:04,430 Of course. 911 00:35:04,431 --> 00:35:06,350 Someone did not expect him to be a dog. 912 00:35:06,650 --> 00:35:07,030 Yeah. 913 00:35:07,070 --> 00:35:08,810 They thought he was going to be a pet. 914 00:35:09,090 --> 00:35:10,090 Mm-hmm. 915 00:35:10,150 --> 00:35:11,590 And he's just... An object. 916 00:35:11,970 --> 00:35:12,470 He's not. 917 00:35:12,630 --> 00:35:16,030 He likes cheese, and he loves to kiss your face. 918 00:35:16,760 --> 00:35:18,350 And he farts a lot. 919 00:35:18,410 --> 00:35:18,710 Ugh. 920 00:35:19,120 --> 00:35:20,120 A lot like me. 921 00:35:20,620 --> 00:35:22,290 Like fatal, fatal farts. 922 00:35:22,291 --> 00:35:22,710 Oh, my. 923 00:35:22,910 --> 00:35:23,310 Oh, yeah. 924 00:35:23,311 --> 00:35:24,650 Sidney seconds him. 925 00:35:24,810 --> 00:35:25,810 Oh, right? 926 00:35:26,425 --> 00:35:29,890 But Chu-Chu could kill a small animal. 927 00:35:29,990 --> 00:35:30,490 Oh, wait. 928 00:35:30,570 --> 00:35:31,590 He has... But no. 929 00:35:32,060 --> 00:35:34,030 He's not killed a small animal with his farts. 930 00:35:34,210 --> 00:35:35,670 So that's the difference. 931 00:35:35,970 --> 00:35:36,970 Not that we know. 932 00:35:37,230 --> 00:35:37,630 That we know. 933 00:35:37,690 --> 00:35:38,990 It's not been documented yet. 934 00:35:39,370 --> 00:35:41,406 Maybe... Maybe that's what happened with Peeta. 935 00:35:41,430 --> 00:35:41,910 But he... 936 00:35:42,310 --> 00:35:43,310 She got farted on. 937 00:35:43,570 --> 00:35:44,570 I don't think that's it. 938 00:35:44,740 --> 00:35:47,930 Because he has squished rats. 939 00:35:49,990 --> 00:35:50,510 Yeah. 940 00:35:50,770 --> 00:35:51,050 But... 941 00:35:51,785 --> 00:35:53,010 Not rats on purpose. 942 00:35:53,130 --> 00:35:53,570 No. 943 00:35:53,710 --> 00:35:54,190 No, no, no. 944 00:35:54,250 --> 00:35:54,910 Not pet rats. 945 00:35:55,010 --> 00:35:55,250 No. 946 00:35:55,390 --> 00:35:56,630 The rats we have... 947 00:35:56,880 --> 00:35:58,170 We live close to a greenway. 948 00:35:58,750 --> 00:36:02,190 There are lots of things that live close to us. 949 00:36:02,310 --> 00:36:02,790 But we... 950 00:36:03,110 --> 00:36:06,750 Yeah, we have a lot of reserved... 951 00:36:06,950 --> 00:36:09,790 Not reserved land, but like agriculture land. 952 00:36:09,950 --> 00:36:11,710 That like cannot be built on. 953 00:36:12,035 --> 00:36:13,035 We got a lot of greenway. 954 00:36:13,130 --> 00:36:13,510 Yeah. 955 00:36:13,740 --> 00:36:14,740 So the little... 956 00:36:14,830 --> 00:36:18,770 The little streams and stuff that kind of run under the road or next to the road. 957 00:36:19,610 --> 00:36:20,810 It's all preserved. 958 00:36:20,870 --> 00:36:22,870 And we have nutria. 959 00:36:22,950 --> 00:36:25,690 We have deers that live across the street. 960 00:36:25,810 --> 00:36:26,070 Oh, yeah. 961 00:36:26,071 --> 00:36:29,230 I missed it actually the other day when I left. 962 00:36:30,090 --> 00:36:31,310 I was kind of sad about that. 963 00:36:31,410 --> 00:36:31,970 I'm going to... 964 00:36:32,145 --> 00:36:34,051 I'm going to talk about an experience that I 965 00:36:34,052 --> 00:36:35,970 had with that creek that we're talking about. 966 00:36:36,090 --> 00:36:36,270 Sure. 967 00:36:36,585 --> 00:36:38,450 So that creek runs very... 968 00:36:39,950 --> 00:36:40,950 Very far. 969 00:36:41,190 --> 00:36:46,930 It runs... It's the exact same creek that runs from over here across the road. 970 00:36:47,050 --> 00:36:49,330 And it runs all the way up to the park. 971 00:36:49,650 --> 00:36:49,950 Okay. 972 00:36:50,010 --> 00:36:50,470 Okay. 973 00:36:50,490 --> 00:36:53,590 So probably about a mile and a half, I'm going to guess. 974 00:36:53,950 --> 00:36:54,170 Yeah. 975 00:36:54,680 --> 00:37:00,930 So I was down there with some friends because, you know, water, sticks, 976 00:37:01,150 --> 00:37:01,790 throwing things around. 977 00:37:01,955 --> 00:37:02,955 There was a lobster. 978 00:37:03,570 --> 00:37:05,690 I bet there was a crawfish. 979 00:37:06,250 --> 00:37:07,610 No, I'm not even joking. 980 00:37:08,450 --> 00:37:09,450 Like an actual lobster. 981 00:37:11,570 --> 00:37:12,570 I'm being dead serious. 982 00:37:12,650 --> 00:37:13,650 How big was it? 983 00:37:13,900 --> 00:37:15,630 This was like 10 years ago. 984 00:37:15,670 --> 00:37:16,190 I don't remember. 985 00:37:16,470 --> 00:37:18,850 Well, tell me how big it was at that point. 986 00:37:19,770 --> 00:37:20,770 I don't know. 987 00:37:20,810 --> 00:37:21,810 I'm just giving you shit. 988 00:37:22,250 --> 00:37:23,810 I feel like it was probably a crawfish. 989 00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:24,490 It was probably. 990 00:37:24,770 --> 00:37:24,950 Yeah. 991 00:37:24,990 --> 00:37:26,290 But like... Did you... 992 00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:28,110 You grew up over in Tualatin. 993 00:37:28,330 --> 00:37:28,850 Mm-hmm. 994 00:37:29,110 --> 00:37:31,410 What is the August festival they have? 995 00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:34,090 Crawdad and Crawfish. 996 00:37:34,130 --> 00:37:38,110 Oh, the look on your face when you just realized it was the Crawfish Festival. 997 00:37:40,175 --> 00:37:41,870 Yeah, yeah, Crawfish Festival. 998 00:37:42,530 --> 00:37:44,490 So you found a big crawfish. 999 00:37:44,720 --> 00:37:46,230 But I have... Or crawdad. 1000 00:37:46,390 --> 00:37:52,450 I saw them once in 2015, 2016 and never again. 1001 00:37:52,650 --> 00:37:52,810 Sure. 1002 00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:54,080 Never again. 1003 00:37:54,130 --> 00:37:55,130 They probably got killed. 1004 00:37:55,315 --> 00:37:58,190 Well, I mean, the waterways changed quite a bit. 1005 00:37:58,990 --> 00:38:00,470 Not for the worst. 1006 00:38:00,570 --> 00:38:01,970 It's actually cleared up a lot. 1007 00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:04,370 But what does this have to do with our dogs? 1008 00:38:04,610 --> 00:38:05,610 Oh, fuck. 1009 00:38:05,730 --> 00:38:07,290 We got sidetracked. 1010 00:38:07,690 --> 00:38:08,690 Sidetracked! 1011 00:38:10,250 --> 00:38:13,026 But go ahead and tell your story because I like crawdads in the stories. 1012 00:38:13,050 --> 00:38:13,350 Go ahead. 1013 00:38:13,450 --> 00:38:17,590 Yeah, I was just recently down at the stream. 1014 00:38:17,875 --> 00:38:19,010 It's extremely clear. 1015 00:38:19,170 --> 00:38:21,850 It used to be very muddy and algae. 1016 00:38:22,260 --> 00:38:26,505 I think because they've been doing a lot of work 1017 00:38:26,506 --> 00:38:30,011 to bring back the nature of the surrounding area. 1018 00:38:30,230 --> 00:38:31,230 Love that. 1019 00:38:31,860 --> 00:38:33,130 There's still litter. 1020 00:38:33,170 --> 00:38:35,830 I tried to clean up a little bit while I was down there. 1021 00:38:35,870 --> 00:38:36,870 Oh, I love that. 1022 00:38:37,110 --> 00:38:38,450 Well, because there was a lot. 1023 00:38:38,690 --> 00:38:39,870 Is there anything we can say? 1024 00:38:39,950 --> 00:38:41,294 Is there anything we can do with you to find 1025 00:38:41,295 --> 00:38:43,610 those things and pick them up and throw them away? 1026 00:38:43,910 --> 00:38:44,270 Maybe. 1027 00:38:44,570 --> 00:38:45,750 Like a bag or something. 1028 00:38:45,751 --> 00:38:46,791 Did you have a big bucket? 1029 00:38:47,250 --> 00:38:49,091 Last time I was... Did you have little grabbers? 1030 00:38:49,450 --> 00:38:49,870 That's it. 1031 00:38:50,090 --> 00:38:51,346 I don't want to touch that shit. 1032 00:38:51,370 --> 00:38:51,930 So, yeah. 1033 00:38:52,120 --> 00:38:52,770 You need grabbers. 1034 00:38:52,830 --> 00:38:53,410 Anyway, go ahead. 1035 00:38:53,665 --> 00:38:55,390 There were so many cigarette lighters. 1036 00:38:56,080 --> 00:38:57,080 Lighters or butts? 1037 00:38:57,410 --> 00:38:57,810 Lighters. 1038 00:38:57,970 --> 00:38:58,190 Really? 1039 00:38:58,270 --> 00:38:59,790 Like actual full lighters. 1040 00:39:00,570 --> 00:39:01,570 Sorry. 1041 00:39:01,630 --> 00:39:03,870 That was really loud. 1042 00:39:03,990 --> 00:39:04,310 Really? 1043 00:39:04,530 --> 00:39:05,530 Really? 1044 00:39:06,655 --> 00:39:07,590 But yeah, I cleaned those up. 1045 00:39:07,610 --> 00:39:08,370 I got a few pictures. 1046 00:39:08,371 --> 00:39:10,590 On my website. 1047 00:39:11,710 --> 00:39:12,710 On your website? 1048 00:39:13,535 --> 00:39:17,590 Or letsgetsidetrack.org? 1049 00:39:18,250 --> 00:39:20,570 No, it's letsgetsidetrack.net. 1050 00:39:20,810 --> 00:39:21,370 Oh, Jesus. 1051 00:39:21,510 --> 00:39:22,510 Fuck. 1052 00:39:24,170 --> 00:39:25,170 Letsgetsidetrack.net. 1053 00:39:25,290 --> 00:39:26,990 I'll put them down in the description. 1054 00:39:26,991 --> 00:39:28,351 Oh, please just go to the website. 1055 00:39:28,470 --> 00:39:30,050 Don't trust me with it. 1056 00:39:30,190 --> 00:39:30,450 Yeah. 1057 00:39:30,550 --> 00:39:31,550 No, go ahead. 1058 00:39:32,390 --> 00:39:34,350 Go to lemonparty.com. 1059 00:39:34,370 --> 00:39:34,650 What? 1060 00:39:34,850 --> 00:39:35,670 Please don't. 1061 00:39:35,671 --> 00:39:36,790 I don't know what that is. 1062 00:39:37,130 --> 00:39:37,830 Naked old people. 1063 00:39:37,831 --> 00:39:38,330 Please do not. 1064 00:39:38,331 --> 00:39:38,790 Oh, God. 1065 00:39:38,950 --> 00:39:39,210 No. 1066 00:39:39,390 --> 00:39:39,990 Uh-uh. 1067 00:39:39,991 --> 00:39:40,250 No. 1068 00:39:40,370 --> 00:39:41,470 I can tell you about that. 1069 00:39:41,570 --> 00:39:42,170 Oh, God. 1070 00:39:42,230 --> 00:39:42,450 No. 1071 00:39:42,690 --> 00:39:43,030 Please don't. 1072 00:39:43,070 --> 00:39:43,230 Whoa. 1073 00:39:43,770 --> 00:39:44,210 Okay. 1074 00:39:44,310 --> 00:39:46,250 Oh, I think I need a break. 1075 00:39:46,430 --> 00:39:47,990 Right now she's gyrating. 1076 00:39:48,150 --> 00:39:49,150 I might have to go pee. 1077 00:39:49,750 --> 00:39:51,650 Plus, I don't want to hear about naked people. 1078 00:39:52,050 --> 00:39:53,810 I'm getting PTSD from her. 1079 00:39:54,090 --> 00:39:54,930 No, it's naked old people. 1080 00:39:54,970 --> 00:39:55,330 Hey. 1081 00:39:55,750 --> 00:39:57,150 Big scrotum. 1082 00:39:57,210 --> 00:39:58,210 Big balls. 1083 00:39:58,570 --> 00:39:59,910 We will be right back. 1084 00:39:59,970 --> 00:40:00,890 Enjoy the show. 1085 00:40:00,930 --> 00:40:01,350 Bye. 1086 00:40:01,351 --> 00:40:01,770 Bye. 1087 00:40:01,771 --> 00:40:02,771 Bye. 1088 00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:10,280 Thanks for sticking with us. 1089 00:40:10,480 --> 00:40:12,620 We just finished talking about Chu-Chu. 1090 00:40:13,180 --> 00:40:21,180 So, after PETA passed, the boys, the boys, the boys, Eddie and Chu-Chu 1091 00:40:21,181 --> 00:40:26,365 seemed a little bit sad that they were missing a little spunky 1092 00:40:26,366 --> 00:40:30,260 girl, a little spunky girl to, like, fuck their shit up. 1093 00:40:30,560 --> 00:40:36,800 And so, we went back to, at the time, was Family Dog's New Life, which is... 1094 00:40:36,801 --> 00:40:38,880 New Ash... New Life Asher House. 1095 00:40:40,020 --> 00:40:40,920 New Asher... 1096 00:40:41,020 --> 00:40:42,920 New Asher... New Life Asher House. 1097 00:40:42,921 --> 00:40:43,340 Asher House. 1098 00:40:43,520 --> 00:40:43,940 Okay. 1099 00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:45,320 We're going to figure it all out. 1100 00:40:45,500 --> 00:40:46,180 It's in the description. 1101 00:40:46,181 --> 00:40:49,620 And honestly, you can just Google it and fucking Lee Asher is a... 1102 00:40:50,145 --> 00:40:54,080 Oh, here's me sprinkling in the... 1103 00:40:55,020 --> 00:40:58,760 Lee Asher is the dude that saves all the dogs. 1104 00:40:59,050 --> 00:41:00,380 Like, all the dogs. 1105 00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:02,880 He has amazing videos. 1106 00:41:03,740 --> 00:41:05,340 Please, do follow him. 1107 00:41:05,860 --> 00:41:06,860 Support him. 1108 00:41:07,200 --> 00:41:09,320 Take a dog off of his hands if you can. 1109 00:41:09,560 --> 00:41:12,620 Because he loves them all and he takes care of them all. 1110 00:41:12,920 --> 00:41:13,920 And the... 1111 00:41:14,460 --> 00:41:17,040 What was the Family Dog's New Life at the time? 1112 00:41:18,350 --> 00:41:19,350 They did the same thing. 1113 00:41:19,700 --> 00:41:27,700 So, we went back to them and I said, look, we got Chu-Chu and I was sad and 1114 00:41:27,701 --> 00:41:32,236 happy at that time that the person who had really connected 1115 00:41:32,237 --> 00:41:36,480 with Chuy was there and she wasn't there when we adopted him. 1116 00:41:36,660 --> 00:41:39,317 And so, when I walked in, I was like, I don't 1117 00:41:39,318 --> 00:41:41,620 know if you remember CeeLo that was here. 1118 00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:47,720 And she said... I started crying because they had connected and I felt so good. 1119 00:41:48,615 --> 00:41:52,840 And I said, well, we need a girl because the boys are sad and we need a spunky 1120 00:41:52,841 --> 00:41:56,540 little pile of crap that will just keep them on their toes. 1121 00:41:57,040 --> 00:41:59,640 And she's like, here's the dog you need. 1122 00:42:00,220 --> 00:42:01,520 And she was awesome. 1123 00:42:01,700 --> 00:42:04,880 Well, they brought in two... No, they brought in three dogs. 1124 00:42:05,540 --> 00:42:07,720 Two of them were very, very skittish. 1125 00:42:08,300 --> 00:42:10,700 But they were super... Yeah, they were very shy. 1126 00:42:10,820 --> 00:42:12,660 And she was like, okay, here's this one. 1127 00:42:12,680 --> 00:42:13,120 Don't... Here's this dog. 1128 00:42:13,620 --> 00:42:15,200 And she seems really angry. 1129 00:42:15,870 --> 00:42:21,780 And all she did when they let her out of the crate, all she did was growl at us. 1130 00:42:21,860 --> 00:42:22,140 Yeah. 1131 00:42:22,310 --> 00:42:27,420 And it was amazing that she goes, so you can either come back tomorrow and 1132 00:42:27,421 --> 00:42:30,200 we'll try again, or let's shove her in the crate 1133 00:42:30,201 --> 00:42:33,481 and you take her home and see what happens. 1134 00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:37,960 And, you know, us being us, we went, eh, shove her in the crate. 1135 00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:40,140 So, we did that. 1136 00:42:40,260 --> 00:42:42,160 Best decision we ever made. 1137 00:42:42,161 --> 00:42:42,180 Yeah. 1138 00:42:42,181 --> 00:42:42,780 No, man. 1139 00:42:42,781 --> 00:42:45,100 Man, she popped out of that crate like our best friend. 1140 00:42:45,330 --> 00:42:46,620 Like, she was so happy. 1141 00:42:47,450 --> 00:42:54,140 And I cannot remember the girl's name at the shelter that introduced us. 1142 00:42:54,260 --> 00:42:56,000 But we owe her so much. 1143 00:42:56,680 --> 00:42:58,200 We owe her so much. 1144 00:42:58,830 --> 00:43:00,480 I talked to her over email. 1145 00:43:00,660 --> 00:43:01,660 Yeah. 1146 00:43:02,510 --> 00:43:03,860 Almost five years ago. 1147 00:43:03,900 --> 00:43:04,980 I forget her name. 1148 00:43:04,981 --> 00:43:06,340 We've had them so long now. 1149 00:43:06,460 --> 00:43:09,660 And they're just ingrained in our family. 1150 00:43:09,840 --> 00:43:11,480 And that's all we got. 1151 00:43:11,620 --> 00:43:12,620 We got this... 1152 00:43:12,780 --> 00:43:18,040 This crappy little gorgeous thing who, honestly, I call her little fat, 1153 00:43:18,330 --> 00:43:25,280 little fatty and pretty girl and come get your fat, fat or whatever all the time 1154 00:43:25,281 --> 00:43:27,720 because she's just a loving little sweetheart. 1155 00:43:27,780 --> 00:43:28,820 She's the best. 1156 00:43:30,870 --> 00:43:32,834 She's the best behaved dog I feel like we 1157 00:43:32,835 --> 00:43:34,900 have because she can run out the front door. 1158 00:43:35,410 --> 00:43:36,600 We tell her, okay, go ahead. 1159 00:43:36,680 --> 00:43:40,180 And she'll run out the front door and she'll follow Sophia around. 1160 00:43:40,400 --> 00:43:41,400 She doesn't care. 1161 00:43:41,620 --> 00:43:42,660 Unless she has to go. 1162 00:43:42,661 --> 00:43:42,820 She'll go pee. 1163 00:43:43,480 --> 00:43:47,500 In which case, she will go find her place to pee and then she'll find Sophia. 1164 00:43:47,840 --> 00:43:48,840 Yeah. 1165 00:43:50,560 --> 00:43:56,528 Or as of lately, because it's been raining, what she'll 1166 00:43:56,529 --> 00:44:00,720 do is go pee and then run to the door and wait there. 1167 00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:00,920 Yeah. 1168 00:44:00,940 --> 00:44:02,100 Right back to the front door. 1169 00:44:02,690 --> 00:44:03,970 She does not want to be outside. 1170 00:44:04,950 --> 00:44:05,950 But she's a sweetheart. 1171 00:44:06,140 --> 00:44:07,140 In the rain. 1172 00:44:07,220 --> 00:44:08,220 That is. 1173 00:44:08,785 --> 00:44:10,996 During the summer, she... She has a little pink belly. 1174 00:44:11,020 --> 00:44:11,460 Yeah. 1175 00:44:11,461 --> 00:44:12,760 She loves to lay out in the sun. 1176 00:44:12,820 --> 00:44:16,780 We have to put sunscreen on her because she's so, so white. 1177 00:44:16,940 --> 00:44:17,200 She burns easy. 1178 00:44:17,760 --> 00:44:21,380 And like I said before, we will put pictures of these dogs on the website. 1179 00:44:21,600 --> 00:44:22,600 Absolutely. 1180 00:44:23,160 --> 00:44:27,460 And if you want a ton of pictures of Perla, you can go to perlathedog.com. 1181 00:44:28,880 --> 00:44:30,160 Down in the description as well. 1182 00:44:30,780 --> 00:44:32,040 It's a great website. 1183 00:44:32,160 --> 00:44:33,400 There's so many Perla pictures. 1184 00:44:34,145 --> 00:44:37,580 So after we got Perla... 160 hours to make that website. 1185 00:44:37,600 --> 00:44:38,600 Holy crab cakes. 1186 00:44:39,620 --> 00:44:40,620 That's a full-time job. 1187 00:44:40,720 --> 00:44:41,720 Yep. 1188 00:44:41,900 --> 00:44:42,900 Multiple. 1189 00:44:43,380 --> 00:44:44,380 Are you sure? 1190 00:44:45,410 --> 00:44:46,620 Multiple full-time jobs. 1191 00:44:46,700 --> 00:44:46,880 Oh. 1192 00:44:46,960 --> 00:44:47,960 Okay. 1193 00:44:48,265 --> 00:44:50,265 Well, I mean, that's four weeks at a full-time job. 1194 00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:51,360 What? 1195 00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:51,900 Yeah. 1196 00:44:52,060 --> 00:44:53,060 Okay. 1197 00:44:53,840 --> 00:44:57,380 So next dog that popped up was Nola. 1198 00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:05,888 Nola came along because Sophia and Lindsey's cousin 1199 00:45:05,889 --> 00:45:09,580 by marriage was down in California at school and... 1200 00:45:10,060 --> 00:45:10,540 Love you, Em. 1201 00:45:10,541 --> 00:45:11,280 Love you. 1202 00:45:11,281 --> 00:45:12,040 I want to see you again. 1203 00:45:12,300 --> 00:45:12,860 Love you. 1204 00:45:12,861 --> 00:45:13,861 Hope the... 1205 00:45:14,020 --> 00:45:16,000 I don't know if he gave birth yet. 1206 00:45:16,260 --> 00:45:16,280 Oh, do you think their baby's here? 1207 00:45:16,520 --> 00:45:17,320 I don't know. 1208 00:45:17,460 --> 00:45:18,900 I haven't checked. 1209 00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:19,360 Oh, there could be a baby. 1210 00:45:19,560 --> 00:45:24,000 So she has since been married and expecting a child and we're not... 1211 00:45:24,025 --> 00:45:27,420 I don't know because I didn't ask, but... I'll message her. 1212 00:45:27,560 --> 00:45:31,160 It'll be here at some point and there's going to be a little human, which yay. 1213 00:45:31,500 --> 00:45:31,840 Yeah. 1214 00:45:31,841 --> 00:45:35,300 But at the time, 2019? 1215 00:45:36,300 --> 00:45:36,800 Mm-hmm. 1216 00:45:36,820 --> 00:45:37,820 Yeah. 1217 00:45:37,980 --> 00:45:43,180 She lived in a house with some other basketball players and they all adopted 1218 00:45:43,181 --> 00:45:47,860 this dog and they named her Nova and they didn't have any time to take care of her. 1219 00:45:49,940 --> 00:45:57,940 And Lindsey, who is also hard of hearing, misheard her name as Nola, New Orleans, 1220 00:45:58,240 --> 00:45:59,240 Louisiana. 1221 00:45:59,630 --> 00:46:03,962 And so when Lindsey said, well, they have this 1222 00:46:03,963 --> 00:46:07,380 dog named Nola and they need a family for her. 1223 00:46:07,580 --> 00:46:09,652 We went, well, fuck yeah, that's right because 1224 00:46:09,653 --> 00:46:12,441 Nola is one of my very favorite cities. 1225 00:46:14,640 --> 00:46:19,277 So I think it was December 1st or 2nd, it was 1226 00:46:19,278 --> 00:46:23,541 like two days after Thanksgiving that year. 1227 00:46:23,730 --> 00:46:29,160 We met Nola's, what would be grandparents at that point. 1228 00:46:29,280 --> 00:46:29,540 Yeah. 1229 00:46:29,900 --> 00:46:35,340 And they handed us this big footed little yellow and white mess. 1230 00:46:36,060 --> 00:46:36,960 Love you Charlene. 1231 00:46:36,961 --> 00:46:37,080 Love you, Charlene. 1232 00:46:37,940 --> 00:46:39,840 We're so thankful for you guys. 1233 00:46:40,140 --> 00:46:41,140 Yeah. 1234 00:46:41,520 --> 00:46:45,700 And we brought her home and Nola, we brought Nola home. 1235 00:46:46,005 --> 00:46:48,414 And we honestly didn't learn until like a 1236 00:46:48,415 --> 00:46:51,080 year later that we called her the wrong name. 1237 00:46:51,240 --> 00:46:55,660 It was supposed to be Nova, N-O-V-A, not N-O-L-A. 1238 00:46:55,960 --> 00:46:56,640 But you know what? 1239 00:46:56,660 --> 00:46:57,660 I think it's 2020. 1240 00:46:57,810 --> 00:47:00,620 She has turned, she's Nola. 1241 00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:01,380 Noodle. 1242 00:47:01,381 --> 00:47:02,440 She's Noodle. 1243 00:47:02,920 --> 00:47:03,920 Noodle. 1244 00:47:04,240 --> 00:47:04,340 Noodle. 1245 00:47:04,360 --> 00:47:04,380 Noodle. 1246 00:47:04,381 --> 00:47:08,700 She's like, she's the coolest crazy dog. 1247 00:47:09,180 --> 00:47:10,180 She's adorable. 1248 00:47:11,430 --> 00:47:15,340 I am the first person that ever called her Noodle. 1249 00:47:16,290 --> 00:47:19,288 And every time I say that, everyone's like, 1250 00:47:19,289 --> 00:47:22,200 no, but I was the first one to call her Noodle. 1251 00:47:22,240 --> 00:47:23,240 Dig it. 1252 00:47:23,340 --> 00:47:24,980 Noodle, Nola, whatever. 1253 00:47:25,810 --> 00:47:30,820 Like when she's in trouble, it's New Orleans, Louisiana and she doesn't give a shit. 1254 00:47:31,220 --> 00:47:34,280 She is in trouble pretty much all the time. 1255 00:47:34,281 --> 00:47:34,360 Yeah. 1256 00:47:34,530 --> 00:47:35,930 Mostly because she's not listening. 1257 00:47:36,370 --> 00:47:38,540 She wants, she loves sticks. 1258 00:47:38,640 --> 00:47:41,140 She fucking loves her sticks. 1259 00:47:41,900 --> 00:47:46,340 Oh you can Bull penis Oh, she does, she loves some bully sticks. 1260 00:47:46,460 --> 00:47:47,591 Is that what you were talking about? 1261 00:47:47,615 --> 00:47:50,200 No, just regular Oh stick sticks. 1262 00:47:50,340 --> 00:47:50,460 Sticks. 1263 00:47:50,461 --> 00:47:50,780 Okay. 1264 00:47:50,860 --> 00:47:51,300 No, yeah. 1265 00:47:51,320 --> 00:47:53,240 No, yeah, she loves sticks. 1266 00:47:54,210 --> 00:47:58,740 You can take a little tiny stick and throw it and she'll go run over and grab it. 1267 00:47:59,150 --> 00:48:01,444 You can throw a stick and she'll find two other sticks 1268 00:48:01,524 --> 00:48:03,780 and she'll chew them up, and then she will might come... 1269 00:48:03,895 --> 00:48:08,360 You might come back with a half a stick and be like, Do you want this? 1270 00:48:08,455 --> 00:48:09,080 Do you want this? 1271 00:48:09,385 --> 00:48:12,540 No, I'm gonna eat this and she'll run away and she's just fucking adorable. 1272 00:48:13,430 --> 00:48:16,460 Yeah, she's probably what like 70 pounds at this point. 1273 00:48:16,980 --> 00:48:18,720 I think she's a big fucking dog. 1274 00:48:18,900 --> 00:48:19,200 Yeah. 1275 00:48:19,710 --> 00:48:21,040 And she's so smart. 1276 00:48:21,480 --> 00:48:22,480 She's so smart. 1277 00:48:22,520 --> 00:48:23,560 She loves her toys. 1278 00:48:23,980 --> 00:48:26,620 She loves and so Lindsay is her best friend. 1279 00:48:26,850 --> 00:48:28,340 Lindsay is her very best friend. 1280 00:48:28,905 --> 00:48:33,600 And so we have an outbuilding on our property that she and Lindsay live in. 1281 00:48:33,720 --> 00:48:37,940 Because Nola and Sidney cannot live together. 1282 00:48:38,100 --> 00:48:39,800 They try to kill each other. 1283 00:48:40,230 --> 00:48:43,400 So I think that covers Nola. 1284 00:48:44,630 --> 00:48:46,840 Because that's basically what she is. 1285 00:48:46,980 --> 00:48:47,980 Yeah, yeah. 1286 00:48:48,245 --> 00:48:50,900 She has she chewed when she was a baby. 1287 00:48:51,680 --> 00:48:52,320 She chewed everything. 1288 00:48:52,700 --> 00:48:55,660 She chewed all of the wooden things in our house. 1289 00:48:56,150 --> 00:48:58,200 She chewed one of the legs on my piano. 1290 00:48:59,040 --> 00:49:02,780 She chewed a TV, TV tray. 1291 00:49:02,781 --> 00:49:05,100 She chewed two of the legs of a remote. 1292 00:49:06,160 --> 00:49:07,160 Is she chewing a remote? 1293 00:49:07,425 --> 00:49:08,500 I thought that was a rabbit's. 1294 00:49:08,501 --> 00:49:09,501 It was. 1295 00:49:09,840 --> 00:49:12,660 Oh, damn. 1296 00:49:14,920 --> 00:49:19,840 She was the one she was chewing on the corner of the, the, the, the, the, 1297 00:49:19,940 --> 00:49:21,400 the, the, the wall. 1298 00:49:21,920 --> 00:49:22,300 Yes. 1299 00:49:22,580 --> 00:49:23,000 The trim. 1300 00:49:23,120 --> 00:49:23,480 Yes. 1301 00:49:23,481 --> 00:49:25,340 And you put some hot sauce on it. 1302 00:49:25,360 --> 00:49:29,600 I actually, the first time I put some spray, some of the deterrent spray, 1303 00:49:29,740 --> 00:49:31,500 the sour apple spray. 1304 00:49:31,795 --> 00:49:32,760 And she licked it. 1305 00:49:32,761 --> 00:49:34,481 And she was like, this is fucking delicious. 1306 00:49:34,540 --> 00:49:36,420 You also tried a lime. 1307 00:49:37,460 --> 00:49:37,940 Yeah, I did. 1308 00:49:37,941 --> 00:49:38,620 That did not work. 1309 00:49:38,640 --> 00:49:40,260 I did wipe a lime on it too. 1310 00:49:40,765 --> 00:49:42,060 And she was like, don't care. 1311 00:49:42,240 --> 00:49:43,380 Can I have some salt also? 1312 00:49:43,500 --> 00:49:43,720 It made it extra tasty. 1313 00:49:43,980 --> 00:49:44,340 Yeah. 1314 00:49:44,420 --> 00:49:45,520 And then... Put some salt on there? 1315 00:49:45,521 --> 00:49:48,140 I put some habanero sauce on there. 1316 00:49:48,680 --> 00:49:49,540 And she licked it. 1317 00:49:49,600 --> 00:49:52,420 And I thought she was going to be upset and try to run away. 1318 00:49:52,540 --> 00:49:53,920 And she was like, fuck it. 1319 00:49:53,940 --> 00:49:54,940 This is delicious. 1320 00:49:55,320 --> 00:49:56,400 She licked it again. 1321 00:49:56,560 --> 00:49:57,700 I was like, holy fuck. 1322 00:49:57,780 --> 00:49:58,780 What are we doing? 1323 00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:02,720 We couldn't, we couldn't do anything to tell her. 1324 00:50:02,760 --> 00:50:04,220 She just had to outgrow it. 1325 00:50:04,260 --> 00:50:05,000 Yeah, yeah, absolutely. 1326 00:50:05,001 --> 00:50:06,520 Which wasn't too long after that. 1327 00:50:06,540 --> 00:50:12,500 It didn't take very long because she, I feel like much like a lot of big footed 1328 00:50:12,650 --> 00:50:15,220 dogs, she grew out of it fairly quick. 1329 00:50:15,400 --> 00:50:20,260 We did have a DNA test done on her through Banfield. 1330 00:50:20,935 --> 00:50:25,568 And I don't have her percentages, but she's 1331 00:50:25,569 --> 00:50:29,480 mostly American staffy and American bulldog. 1332 00:50:31,590 --> 00:50:32,460 And she's... 1333 00:50:32,610 --> 00:50:34,040 She's got the underbite. 1334 00:50:34,350 --> 00:50:35,440 She's got the big body. 1335 00:50:35,441 --> 00:50:35,960 She's got everything. 1336 00:50:36,260 --> 00:50:37,460 She's got the square ass head. 1337 00:50:37,780 --> 00:50:39,060 She's fucking adorable. 1338 00:50:39,700 --> 00:50:46,000 She has all the kisses, all the hugs, and all the murderous intent when it comes 1339 00:50:46,001 --> 00:50:53,140 to Sydney, who is our COVID dog, our COVID dog that Rhonda... 1340 00:50:54,630 --> 00:50:55,630 Yeah, Rhonda. 1341 00:50:55,740 --> 00:50:57,220 Rhonda introduced to the house. 1342 00:50:57,260 --> 00:50:58,200 Rhonda Fulai. 1343 00:50:58,220 --> 00:50:59,300 We fucking love Rhonda. 1344 00:50:59,600 --> 00:51:00,520 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 1345 00:51:00,521 --> 00:51:01,740 But... Yeah. 1346 00:51:01,741 --> 00:51:03,280 We had four dogs in the house. 1347 00:51:03,535 --> 00:51:04,680 We thought we were done. 1348 00:51:05,130 --> 00:51:06,220 Four dogs is a lot. 1349 00:51:07,255 --> 00:51:09,000 Until we heard Sydney's story. 1350 00:51:09,400 --> 00:51:11,620 Well, four dogs feels like a lot. 1351 00:51:12,860 --> 00:51:19,140 I feel like, as I remember it, that's the legal limit of animals you can 1352 00:51:19,141 --> 00:51:21,232 have, definitely domesticated animals you 1353 00:51:21,233 --> 00:51:23,440 can have in your house in Washington County. 1354 00:51:24,000 --> 00:51:25,420 Please do not quote me on that. 1355 00:51:25,500 --> 00:51:26,740 I'm not 100% sure. 1356 00:51:27,370 --> 00:51:28,540 I thought I read that. 1357 00:51:29,100 --> 00:51:30,970 So after we had Nola... 1358 00:51:32,555 --> 00:51:36,160 For almost a year, we thought we were done. 1359 00:51:36,340 --> 00:51:44,060 And then Rhonda had a friend who fostered dogs from down in Houston. 1360 00:51:44,860 --> 00:51:45,420 Houston? 1361 00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:46,320 Houston. 1362 00:51:46,321 --> 00:51:46,880 Houston. 1363 00:51:47,180 --> 00:51:48,220 Texas ass. 1364 00:51:48,850 --> 00:51:49,850 Texas ass. 1365 00:51:49,980 --> 00:51:55,241 And she was watching a video and we... I think we were... We were having... 1366 00:51:55,415 --> 00:51:56,900 So this is during COVID times. 1367 00:51:56,980 --> 00:52:00,360 So we used to go out to lunch on our days off. 1368 00:52:00,840 --> 00:52:01,720 And she was watching a video. 1369 00:52:01,721 --> 00:52:02,120 We had lunch. 1370 00:52:02,380 --> 00:52:03,680 We played a little lottery. 1371 00:52:03,960 --> 00:52:05,140 We came home. 1372 00:52:05,400 --> 00:52:07,540 We did, you know, went to Goodwill, whatever. 1373 00:52:08,340 --> 00:52:10,592 But then when COVID times happened, we had to figure 1374 00:52:10,593 --> 00:52:13,520 out something else to have to do for our dates. 1375 00:52:14,280 --> 00:52:19,980 So we decided to have car dates and we would order takeout from a place and then 1376 00:52:19,981 --> 00:52:26,500 we would find a nice place to park and have our lunch and watch a video or like I 1377 00:52:26,825 --> 00:52:29,760 had my phone connected my car. 1378 00:52:30,355 --> 00:52:31,260 Like I put my phone up. 1379 00:52:31,261 --> 00:52:34,715 And we watched part of a movie or we'd watch 1380 00:52:34,716 --> 00:52:37,440 NCIS or we'd watch whatever on the phone. 1381 00:52:37,850 --> 00:52:44,680 And so we were sitting there watching a video and she goes, look at this dog. 1382 00:52:45,740 --> 00:52:47,260 And I was like, okay. 1383 00:52:47,320 --> 00:52:51,720 And I look at this dog and she's looking at me like with big puppy dog eyes. 1384 00:52:51,760 --> 00:52:53,060 I'm like, who are you? 1385 00:52:53,100 --> 00:52:54,160 What is going on right now? 1386 00:52:54,161 --> 00:52:55,401 What did you do with my Rhonda? 1387 00:52:55,560 --> 00:52:56,380 What is Rhonda doing? 1388 00:52:56,420 --> 00:52:57,460 We had four dogs. 1389 00:52:57,520 --> 00:52:58,520 That's enough. 1390 00:52:58,550 --> 00:52:59,670 And she's like, look at her. 1391 00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:00,780 She's amazing. 1392 00:53:00,781 --> 00:53:04,671 And her friend in Washington had been fostering 1393 00:53:04,672 --> 00:53:10,260 this dog and this dog had been found in a ditch. 1394 00:53:10,540 --> 00:53:12,020 She had been hit by a car. 1395 00:53:12,590 --> 00:53:17,880 So Jenny's Rescue Ranch was a different name at the time, but it's the same people. 1396 00:53:18,510 --> 00:53:19,480 Well at least Jenny. 1397 00:53:19,481 --> 00:53:20,060 It used to be Zoo. 1398 00:53:20,140 --> 00:53:21,140 Zoo's Rescue. 1399 00:53:21,930 --> 00:53:25,080 And Jenny went and found her in this ditch. 1400 00:53:25,420 --> 00:53:30,700 They wrapped her up in a tarp and they took her to Texas A&M. 1401 00:53:30,780 --> 00:53:33,840 University who fixed her. 1402 00:53:33,960 --> 00:53:36,080 She had a broken femur. 1403 00:53:37,010 --> 00:53:39,000 She had a dislocated hip on the other side. 1404 00:53:39,100 --> 00:53:42,400 So they put a pin down her one femur. 1405 00:53:42,555 --> 00:53:43,555 They put... 1406 00:53:44,260 --> 00:53:45,060 I'm sorry. 1407 00:53:45,100 --> 00:53:45,620 I'm going to back up. 1408 00:53:45,700 --> 00:53:47,800 They put a rod down her one femur. 1409 00:53:48,280 --> 00:53:50,000 They put pins in the other hip. 1410 00:53:52,120 --> 00:54:00,120 And then Jenny and her crew took care of her until she was up and running. 1411 00:54:00,180 --> 00:54:00,760 So to speak. 1412 00:54:00,780 --> 00:54:01,780 To speak again. 1413 00:54:02,030 --> 00:54:05,440 And they advertised her. 1414 00:54:05,560 --> 00:54:07,860 They showed everyone, here's this dog. 1415 00:54:08,520 --> 00:54:09,720 She's had a shit life. 1416 00:54:10,895 --> 00:54:12,620 Look at how amazing she is. 1417 00:54:14,070 --> 00:54:15,230 You should hang out with her. 1418 00:54:15,600 --> 00:54:16,600 Yeah. 1419 00:54:17,580 --> 00:54:18,920 Devastating video to watch. 1420 00:54:19,100 --> 00:54:19,820 Oh, I don't want to. 1421 00:54:19,840 --> 00:54:21,000 I don't want to see it again. 1422 00:54:21,780 --> 00:54:29,780 The recovery was recorded because, I don't know, insurance reasons. 1423 00:54:29,860 --> 00:54:30,860 I don't know. 1424 00:54:31,020 --> 00:54:34,780 But she did not care anymore. 1425 00:54:36,020 --> 00:54:36,620 Sidney. 1426 00:54:36,621 --> 00:54:36,860 Sid? 1427 00:54:37,020 --> 00:54:38,340 She gave up. 1428 00:54:38,660 --> 00:54:39,700 She did not want to live. 1429 00:54:40,270 --> 00:54:43,300 She knew that she was probably going to die. 1430 00:54:43,480 --> 00:54:44,480 Oh, yeah. 1431 00:54:44,600 --> 00:54:44,820 Yeah. 1432 00:54:44,880 --> 00:54:45,260 Yeah. 1433 00:54:45,320 --> 00:54:46,420 Luckily, she didn't. 1434 00:54:46,550 --> 00:54:47,550 She's safe. 1435 00:54:48,080 --> 00:54:49,580 She's a beautiful dog. 1436 00:54:49,640 --> 00:54:50,020 Don't cry. 1437 00:54:50,440 --> 00:54:50,920 Oh, please. 1438 00:54:51,160 --> 00:54:52,500 You're going to make me cry. 1439 00:54:52,660 --> 00:54:53,260 I'm sorry. 1440 00:54:53,630 --> 00:54:57,246 So Rhonda showed me this video of this half 1441 00:54:57,247 --> 00:55:00,760 shaved little shepherd mix running around a yard. 1442 00:55:00,761 --> 00:55:06,120 Just being the happiest little fucker in the world. 1443 00:55:06,910 --> 00:55:12,520 And I had thought we were done with like adopting dogs. 1444 00:55:12,740 --> 00:55:14,000 I was like, who are you? 1445 00:55:14,040 --> 00:55:15,380 Why are we looking at this dog? 1446 00:55:15,620 --> 00:55:17,760 And she was like, let's go meet that. 1447 00:55:17,820 --> 00:55:19,260 Let's we need to meet this dog. 1448 00:55:19,715 --> 00:55:24,640 And I was like, well, we can't meet this dog unless we agree to take her on. 1449 00:55:24,960 --> 00:55:25,960 Yeah. 1450 00:55:26,660 --> 00:55:30,500 And so because I love Rhonda. 1451 00:55:30,760 --> 00:55:31,940 And Rhonda loved this dog. 1452 00:55:33,850 --> 00:55:36,360 I contacted Jenny's Rescue Ranch. 1453 00:55:36,520 --> 00:55:39,460 I said, hey, how do we how do we adopt this dog? 1454 00:55:39,680 --> 00:55:44,780 And she forwarded me paperwork and we paid a handful of money. 1455 00:55:44,840 --> 00:55:49,960 And then on I want to think it was October 31st, 2020. 1456 00:55:51,520 --> 00:55:52,360 We met. 1457 00:55:52,540 --> 00:55:54,180 It was the 30th, I think. 1458 00:55:54,240 --> 00:55:54,520 Was it? 1459 00:55:54,600 --> 00:56:00,500 We met the... We met the van down Jansen Beach in Portland. 1460 00:56:02,540 --> 00:56:09,640 And this little scared, just gorgeous little shepherd mix. 1461 00:56:09,940 --> 00:56:10,940 She was so little. 1462 00:56:11,000 --> 00:56:13,520 And they were like, oh, she's about a year and a half old. 1463 00:56:13,600 --> 00:56:14,000 Tiny girl. 1464 00:56:14,200 --> 00:56:15,200 She was actually not. 1465 00:56:15,600 --> 00:56:18,624 She was a lot younger than that because when she got to our 1466 00:56:18,625 --> 00:56:22,340 house, she started chewing on shit like nobody's business. 1467 00:56:22,700 --> 00:56:22,820 Yeah. 1468 00:56:23,560 --> 00:56:26,360 And she accepted us. 1469 00:56:27,360 --> 00:56:29,900 She soon started trusting us. 1470 00:56:29,901 --> 00:56:34,220 And pretty soon she started bossing us around. 1471 00:56:34,480 --> 00:56:34,880 Oh, yeah. 1472 00:56:35,160 --> 00:56:36,520 She's the boss of the house. 1473 00:56:36,620 --> 00:56:37,620 No one else is. 1474 00:56:37,915 --> 00:56:43,880 Because then we learned that she was not just an Australian German Shepherd mix. 1475 00:56:44,100 --> 00:56:45,540 No Aussie Shepherd. 1476 00:56:46,370 --> 00:56:52,460 She is 37% Husky, 23% German Shepherd. 1477 00:56:52,760 --> 00:56:53,760 Yep. 1478 00:56:53,830 --> 00:56:54,830 And she makes it known. 1479 00:56:54,920 --> 00:56:56,320 And like 4% Chihuahua. 1480 00:56:56,545 --> 00:56:59,880 I can post her mixes if we need to. 1481 00:56:59,881 --> 00:57:01,660 But she is... Let's do that anyway. 1482 00:57:02,000 --> 00:57:04,400 So fucking full of shit. 1483 00:57:04,480 --> 00:57:05,600 She's so full of shit. 1484 00:57:06,460 --> 00:57:07,660 She bosses us around. 1485 00:57:07,820 --> 00:57:10,360 She will boop us with her nose. 1486 00:57:10,361 --> 00:57:11,361 Hard. 1487 00:57:11,460 --> 00:57:12,480 It hurts. 1488 00:57:12,840 --> 00:57:13,220 Yeah. 1489 00:57:13,340 --> 00:57:15,160 She'll move us around on her. 1490 00:57:15,280 --> 00:57:16,280 Yeah. 1491 00:57:16,340 --> 00:57:17,820 Whatever she wants us to do. 1492 00:57:18,475 --> 00:57:24,540 For me, she likes to boop my inner knee, which will cause my knee to buckle. 1493 00:57:25,975 --> 00:57:28,380 What she loves the most is to wake you up. 1494 00:57:29,615 --> 00:57:31,700 And she will get up on Sophia's bed. 1495 00:57:32,850 --> 00:57:39,821 She'll get right in her face and either yell or she'll scratch her face with her paw. 1496 00:57:40,180 --> 00:57:41,440 Beat my ass, basically. 1497 00:57:41,720 --> 00:57:44,320 She cuts her own nails. 1498 00:57:44,560 --> 00:57:46,160 She will lay there at night and... 1499 00:57:46,310 --> 00:57:48,100 No, she's not cutting them. 1500 00:57:48,160 --> 00:57:49,320 She's sharpening them. 1501 00:57:49,520 --> 00:57:50,040 She will sharpen it. 1502 00:57:50,060 --> 00:57:52,120 She got little shivs on her hand. 1503 00:57:52,260 --> 00:57:53,300 Like prison shivs. 1504 00:57:53,301 --> 00:57:54,360 Full of prison shivs. 1505 00:57:54,361 --> 00:57:54,620 Yeah. 1506 00:57:54,621 --> 00:57:55,800 She'll fuck you up. 1507 00:57:56,060 --> 00:57:56,460 Yeah. 1508 00:57:56,461 --> 00:57:56,540 Yeah. 1509 00:57:56,541 --> 00:57:57,780 I have a scar. 1510 00:57:58,320 --> 00:58:00,800 We all have scars in our house. 1511 00:58:00,880 --> 00:58:02,100 Most of them are emotional. 1512 00:58:02,360 --> 00:58:02,580 Yup. 1513 00:58:02,581 --> 00:58:03,920 Oh, so many emotional. 1514 00:58:04,020 --> 00:58:10,940 We all have physical scars from Syd because she wants us to do what she wants us to do. 1515 00:58:11,310 --> 00:58:13,660 And we totally play into it. 1516 00:58:13,661 --> 00:58:14,480 It's all our fault. 1517 00:58:14,610 --> 00:58:15,280 It doesn't matter. 1518 00:58:15,440 --> 00:58:15,840 Yeah. 1519 00:58:15,860 --> 00:58:16,860 She's amazing. 1520 00:58:16,900 --> 00:58:19,680 And she loves everybody that lives in our house. 1521 00:58:20,465 --> 00:58:22,120 Eddie, I feel like is her favorite. 1522 00:58:23,260 --> 00:58:24,860 And then Rhonda. 1523 00:58:24,861 --> 00:58:26,500 And then Chuy. 1524 00:58:26,520 --> 00:58:27,200 Chuy, Chuy. 1525 00:58:27,260 --> 00:58:28,540 She loves Chuy. 1526 00:58:28,990 --> 00:58:32,980 Chuy loves everybody to begin with, but... And then she's scared of Perla. 1527 00:58:33,405 --> 00:58:34,660 Well, Perla's a little cunt. 1528 00:58:34,680 --> 00:58:35,680 What is she going to do? 1529 00:58:35,920 --> 00:58:36,580 That is true. 1530 00:58:36,740 --> 00:58:37,000 Yeah. 1531 00:58:37,001 --> 00:58:38,820 But Perla... They're getting better. 1532 00:58:39,080 --> 00:58:40,080 Getting better. 1533 00:58:40,320 --> 00:58:47,040 Perla was, from what I know, an only dog up until she was with us. 1534 00:58:47,180 --> 00:58:48,180 Okay. 1535 00:58:48,365 --> 00:58:51,860 We're going to take a quick commercial song break. 1536 00:59:06,415 --> 00:59:07,320 Well, welcome back. 1537 00:59:07,321 --> 00:59:09,400 Welcome back from that little tiny break. 1538 00:59:12,445 --> 00:59:13,656 We were chatting about the dogs. 1539 00:59:13,680 --> 00:59:16,260 We were talking about how many dogs live with us. 1540 00:59:16,560 --> 00:59:17,000 Yeah. 1541 00:59:17,240 --> 00:59:18,240 Was that your phone? 1542 00:59:18,300 --> 00:59:18,800 That was my phone. 1543 00:59:19,030 --> 00:59:19,920 Holy crab cakes. 1544 00:59:20,020 --> 00:59:21,020 That was loud. 1545 00:59:21,100 --> 00:59:22,100 Yeah. 1546 00:59:22,230 --> 00:59:23,140 So, yeah. 1547 00:59:23,200 --> 00:59:26,300 We were talking about, you know, having all them dogs. 1548 00:59:26,380 --> 00:59:27,600 How we got the dogs. 1549 00:59:27,700 --> 00:59:28,700 Camp had the dog. 1550 00:59:28,930 --> 00:59:29,930 Camp had the dog. 1551 00:59:30,720 --> 00:59:32,320 So we had... Okay. 1552 00:59:32,400 --> 00:59:34,540 So we had all these dogs that lived with us. 1553 00:59:34,690 --> 00:59:40,080 And our oldest kid, Lindsey, went to school at... 1554 00:59:42,060 --> 00:59:42,620 OSU? 1555 00:59:42,960 --> 00:59:43,960 Oregon State University. 1556 00:59:46,160 --> 00:59:48,540 She went to studdle... Studdle? 1557 00:59:48,870 --> 00:59:50,980 She went to study animal... She really went to studdle. 1558 00:59:50,981 --> 00:59:51,981 She went to studdle. 1559 00:59:52,150 --> 00:59:54,520 She went to study animal sciences. 1560 00:59:55,675 --> 00:59:56,840 And she spent a year... Wish that worked. 1561 00:59:56,841 --> 00:59:59,580 She spent a year there and it just was not her jam. 1562 00:59:59,910 --> 01:00:00,910 For sure 1563 01:00:01,255 --> 01:00:02,255 It didn't work out. 1564 01:00:02,480 --> 01:00:04,240 And I get it. 1565 01:00:04,241 --> 01:00:04,520 Because I... 1566 01:00:04,521 --> 01:00:06,824 Sometimes you just do not click with what you 1567 01:00:06,825 --> 01:00:10,401 want to do and what you're supposed to do. 1568 01:00:10,630 --> 01:00:13,110 That being said, she still doesn't know what she's going to do. 1569 01:00:13,500 --> 01:00:18,800 But when she left, Nola got super, super anxious. 1570 01:00:19,870 --> 01:00:22,920 And she and Sidney started fighting. 1571 01:00:23,780 --> 01:00:26,680 And not even like, oh, yeah, punch, punch, punch. 1572 01:00:27,280 --> 01:00:30,720 It was, I'm going to fucking kill you because my kid's gone. 1573 01:00:31,080 --> 01:00:31,320 Mm-hmm. 1574 01:00:31,820 --> 01:00:37,000 And it took us several fights before we were able to figure 1575 01:00:37,001 --> 01:00:40,800 out what was going on and that we needed to separate them. 1576 01:00:41,740 --> 01:00:48,320 Including having a animal, Caesar Milan type. 1577 01:00:48,560 --> 01:00:48,980 Oh, yeah. 1578 01:00:49,040 --> 01:00:50,520 No, we had a dog trainer. 1579 01:00:51,210 --> 01:00:55,460 We had a dog trainer that came in for quite a few weeks and she was amazing. 1580 01:00:56,200 --> 01:00:56,680 I... 1581 01:00:57,030 --> 01:00:59,260 Oh, God, I wish I could remember the name of the... 1582 01:00:59,840 --> 01:01:02,040 It was... Little Asian lady. 1583 01:01:03,120 --> 01:01:04,120 Little Asian lady. 1584 01:01:04,420 --> 01:01:05,940 You talk, I'm going to look it up. 1585 01:01:06,000 --> 01:01:06,260 Okay. 1586 01:01:06,300 --> 01:01:06,580 Yeah. 1587 01:01:06,640 --> 01:01:09,380 So she came in for a few sessions. 1588 01:01:09,500 --> 01:01:14,080 I think in total we had maybe six sessions. 1589 01:01:14,480 --> 01:01:17,600 Well, we had several weeks that we visited with her. 1590 01:01:17,880 --> 01:01:18,880 Yeah. 1591 01:01:18,960 --> 01:01:23,661 And eventually we realized that this... Wasn't going to work. 1592 01:01:23,700 --> 01:01:24,600 This wasn't going to work. 1593 01:01:24,720 --> 01:01:25,720 Yeah. 1594 01:01:27,120 --> 01:01:30,720 And I think it took one more fight without her than we had. 1595 01:01:30,721 --> 01:01:33,380 Because they got into a fight while she was present. 1596 01:01:33,560 --> 01:01:33,940 Yeah. 1597 01:01:34,500 --> 01:01:36,920 They got into a couple of scuffles. 1598 01:01:37,920 --> 01:01:42,300 And it was mainly over food, but it also depended on who was in the room. 1599 01:01:43,140 --> 01:01:45,360 So I was able to... Thank you for talking. 1600 01:01:45,540 --> 01:01:49,320 I was able to look it up and it's the cooperative canine. 1601 01:01:51,695 --> 01:01:53,280 And honestly, she's fucking amazing. 1602 01:01:53,460 --> 01:01:54,160 Extremely nice. 1603 01:01:54,250 --> 01:01:59,660 She taught us a lot of things that we could do to get the dogs to get along. 1604 01:01:59,661 --> 01:02:02,440 Or what happened when they didn't get along. 1605 01:02:03,050 --> 01:02:08,000 And unfortunately, they didn't get along more often than they did. 1606 01:02:08,240 --> 01:02:08,360 Yeah. 1607 01:02:08,670 --> 01:02:11,969 So we're very fortunate to have an outbuilding on 1608 01:02:11,970 --> 01:02:16,480 our property that Lindsey could move out with Nola. 1609 01:02:17,855 --> 01:02:21,960 Who actually ended up to be the aggressor in a lot of the situations. 1610 01:02:21,961 --> 01:02:27,040 And I feel like that's something Lindsey doesn't seem to understand. 1611 01:02:27,420 --> 01:02:29,440 Is that Nola was the aggressor. 1612 01:02:29,441 --> 01:02:30,441 In most of them. 1613 01:02:30,590 --> 01:02:35,080 If your favorite dog is the one that misbehaves, you don't want to admit that 1614 01:02:35,280 --> 01:02:37,020 that's what's happening. 1615 01:02:37,360 --> 01:02:37,620 Yeah. 1616 01:02:37,980 --> 01:02:44,220 But when we all agreed that it was best if Nola moved out there with her. 1617 01:02:45,350 --> 01:02:46,960 Lindsey was cool with it. 1618 01:02:47,020 --> 01:02:49,000 She was totally fine with it. 1619 01:02:49,210 --> 01:02:52,604 And honestly, both of them have the same sort 1620 01:02:52,605 --> 01:02:57,260 of personalities where they like to be social. 1621 01:02:57,690 --> 01:02:58,340 Both assholes. 1622 01:02:58,341 --> 01:02:59,580 They don't want to be social. 1623 01:02:59,760 --> 01:03:00,120 Sorry. 1624 01:03:00,380 --> 01:03:01,480 They are kind of assholes. 1625 01:03:01,540 --> 01:03:01,940 It's okay. 1626 01:03:02,545 --> 01:03:04,300 But when they want to be social, they will. 1627 01:03:04,460 --> 01:03:07,440 And when they don't want to be, just fucking back off. 1628 01:03:07,720 --> 01:03:08,040 Yeah. 1629 01:03:08,450 --> 01:03:13,300 So they... Nola, honestly, Nola is super happy being an only dog. 1630 01:03:14,300 --> 01:03:16,880 She doesn't give a fuck if anybody... Oh, no. 1631 01:03:17,080 --> 01:03:18,120 I'm going to correct that. 1632 01:03:18,430 --> 01:03:22,173 She loves it when Chu Chu comes out because 1633 01:03:22,174 --> 01:03:25,060 Nola was a baby when Chu-Chu was around. 1634 01:03:25,260 --> 01:03:28,200 And so he kind of raised her up. 1635 01:03:28,375 --> 01:03:34,620 And they are the best buddies when they're out together. 1636 01:03:35,340 --> 01:03:38,502 And Chu-Chu doesn't give a shit who is with 1637 01:03:38,503 --> 01:03:41,260 him as long as he has somebody to hang out with. 1638 01:03:41,460 --> 01:03:42,460 He doesn't give a fuck. 1639 01:03:42,960 --> 01:03:47,080 So for Nola, she love, love, loves Chuy. 1640 01:03:48,320 --> 01:03:52,140 Anybody else, she would love to taste them. 1641 01:03:53,260 --> 01:03:57,520 My issue with Lindsey on this topic is that... 1642 01:03:58,320 --> 01:04:02,140 She takes no responsibility for things that Nola does. 1643 01:04:03,730 --> 01:04:09,860 When Nola destroyed the door, she's like, yeah, well, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. 1644 01:04:10,135 --> 01:04:12,360 But not like, yep, she did that. 1645 01:04:12,990 --> 01:04:14,950 I'm going to, I'm going to, I'm going to fix that. 1646 01:04:16,740 --> 01:04:17,220 No. 1647 01:04:17,670 --> 01:04:18,700 But who did she have? 1648 01:04:18,990 --> 01:04:21,900 Who did you... One of us has been drinking a lot. 1649 01:04:22,130 --> 01:04:23,480 It might have been me. 1650 01:04:24,720 --> 01:04:27,440 But who does she have as a role model? 1651 01:04:27,520 --> 01:04:32,900 She has me saying, if this is this, then that is that. 1652 01:04:33,410 --> 01:04:40,260 But then it's easier if she follows her dad's role model in that, well, 1653 01:04:40,400 --> 01:04:41,400 I didn't do that. 1654 01:04:41,440 --> 01:04:42,780 So that's not my fault. 1655 01:04:43,000 --> 01:04:44,000 I don't know. 1656 01:04:44,060 --> 01:04:45,160 It's not me. 1657 01:04:46,355 --> 01:04:48,120 I have a lot of those not me-isms. 1658 01:04:48,800 --> 01:04:54,060 But I feel like mine are kind of valid in a lot of ways. 1659 01:04:54,925 --> 01:04:57,500 In that I shouldn't have to clean up for myself. 1660 01:04:57,520 --> 01:04:58,520 Or for other people. 1661 01:04:58,680 --> 01:04:59,680 Agreed. 1662 01:04:59,740 --> 01:05:01,980 Which, you know, is sound. 1663 01:05:02,390 --> 01:05:09,000 And to preface that, I'm going to say, Sophia is the only one of the four of us 1664 01:05:09,001 --> 01:05:12,160 that does not have a full-time job outside of the house. 1665 01:05:15,650 --> 01:05:20,494 So a lot of, most of us count on her to do things 1666 01:05:20,495 --> 01:05:24,420 like garbage, dishes, laundry for if we need. 1667 01:05:24,520 --> 01:05:27,500 Some of us are there working a laundry. 1668 01:05:27,501 --> 01:05:28,816 Some of us are there for a longer week. 1669 01:05:28,840 --> 01:05:32,500 We count on her to back us up and take care of those things. 1670 01:05:32,720 --> 01:05:36,960 And we have talked personally about this. 1671 01:05:37,000 --> 01:05:37,240 Yeah. 1672 01:05:37,241 --> 01:05:38,376 But I'm just going to say it here. 1673 01:05:38,400 --> 01:05:40,100 It's extremely stressful. 1674 01:05:41,260 --> 01:05:49,260 And then what will happen is we will be talking and you will be like, well, 1675 01:05:49,900 --> 01:05:51,160 what do you, what do you do? 1676 01:05:51,970 --> 01:05:53,650 Like you don't, you're not doing anything. 1677 01:05:54,420 --> 01:05:56,040 And... I try not to do that. 1678 01:05:56,065 --> 01:05:57,960 Because I know you have things going on. 1679 01:05:58,020 --> 01:05:59,740 But you know, you still do that sometimes. 1680 01:06:00,140 --> 01:06:01,580 It hasn't happened in a few months. 1681 01:06:02,440 --> 01:06:06,380 And I will be like, are you fucking kidding me? 1682 01:06:07,630 --> 01:06:11,760 Because I will, I try my hardest around here. 1683 01:06:11,820 --> 01:06:12,680 And I think you know that. 1684 01:06:12,780 --> 01:06:13,340 I do. 1685 01:06:13,690 --> 01:06:16,120 And I'm not saying that you haven't been showing this. 1686 01:06:16,160 --> 01:06:18,040 I'm just, I'm explaining that. 1687 01:06:18,120 --> 01:06:19,740 I know that you do a lot of things. 1688 01:06:20,125 --> 01:06:24,620 But there are also a lot of things that I really want to have happen. 1689 01:06:25,650 --> 01:06:30,195 And on my, it's, it's my shortfall that I don't 1690 01:06:30,196 --> 01:06:34,601 say, hey, Sophia, could you please do this? 1691 01:06:34,640 --> 01:06:38,500 I, I want, I assume that you know the things that I want to do. 1692 01:06:39,350 --> 01:06:40,840 But you don't. 1693 01:06:41,090 --> 01:06:43,100 And I feel bad about that. 1694 01:06:43,400 --> 01:06:45,560 Because you can't read my mind. 1695 01:06:45,710 --> 01:06:47,720 And I don't understand why you can't. 1696 01:06:47,721 --> 01:06:49,930 The thing that I don't think a lot of people in this 1697 01:06:49,931 --> 01:06:52,260 house understand even is even though I am medicated. 1698 01:06:52,261 --> 01:06:55,620 I am still severely depressed. 1699 01:06:56,450 --> 01:07:02,268 And I only have a finite amount of things that I can do 1700 01:07:02,269 --> 01:07:06,180 before I'm basically completely out of energy for a week. 1701 01:07:07,490 --> 01:07:11,280 So, it's not that like I want to die in terms of depression. 1702 01:07:11,560 --> 01:07:14,380 But it's like, I only got this. 1703 01:07:15,020 --> 01:07:16,420 That makes me really sad to hear. 1704 01:07:16,421 --> 01:07:16,780 I'm sorry. 1705 01:07:16,781 --> 01:07:17,640 I don't want to make you sad. 1706 01:07:17,660 --> 01:07:18,160 I am super sorry. 1707 01:07:18,240 --> 01:07:21,260 Because I am unmedicated. 1708 01:07:21,261 --> 01:07:22,620 Unmedicated ADHD. 1709 01:07:23,740 --> 01:07:24,740 And... 1710 01:07:25,060 --> 01:07:26,480 I have diagnosed... Wow. 1711 01:07:26,840 --> 01:07:27,840 Severe depression. 1712 01:07:27,960 --> 01:07:28,840 I am so sorry. 1713 01:07:28,841 --> 01:07:29,400 If you all don't know that. 1714 01:07:29,520 --> 01:07:32,780 But I am very sorry that I expect those things out of you without knowing that. 1715 01:07:33,020 --> 01:07:34,020 Um... 1716 01:07:35,040 --> 01:07:38,020 And the things that I do get done, I... 1717 01:07:39,865 --> 01:07:43,160 Doing them is... Exhausting. 1718 01:07:43,161 --> 01:07:44,161 It's very exhausting. 1719 01:07:45,000 --> 01:07:48,680 So, you doing the dishes is like... But for me, it's like... 1720 01:07:49,315 --> 01:07:50,300 I have to do this. 1721 01:07:50,301 --> 01:07:51,301 And then... 1722 01:07:52,850 --> 01:07:55,500 The things that I really want to do that bring me joy. 1723 01:07:56,620 --> 01:07:58,180 I have no energy for them. 1724 01:07:58,340 --> 01:07:59,340 And doing the dishes. 1725 01:07:59,440 --> 01:08:01,180 That's me being manic. 1726 01:08:01,720 --> 01:08:05,080 Like getting home from work on a day that I don't have to go to work that night. 1727 01:08:05,780 --> 01:08:09,600 And I have extra energy because I've been running all night. 1728 01:08:09,700 --> 01:08:10,776 And I have to do all these things. 1729 01:08:10,800 --> 01:08:11,340 And I'm like... 1730 01:08:11,640 --> 01:08:12,760 Oh, well, this is like shit. 1731 01:08:12,820 --> 01:08:13,320 Oh, look. 1732 01:08:13,420 --> 01:08:15,600 There's ants in the thing. 1733 01:08:15,720 --> 01:08:17,440 And I'm going to go ahead and do this thing. 1734 01:08:17,675 --> 01:08:18,675 And then I do the dishes. 1735 01:08:18,760 --> 01:08:24,060 And I... It's not so much that I have to do it because you won't get it done. 1736 01:08:24,520 --> 01:08:26,580 Because... It's... It's just for the family. 1737 01:08:26,660 --> 01:08:28,020 It should be done. 1738 01:08:28,130 --> 01:08:29,260 And we got to get it finished. 1739 01:08:29,261 --> 01:08:31,980 Well, me and my oldest sister, Lindsey, switched. 1740 01:08:32,120 --> 01:08:33,580 So, she would do dishes. 1741 01:08:34,500 --> 01:08:39,260 But then it turned into both you and me doing dishes. 1742 01:08:39,980 --> 01:08:40,980 And... 1743 01:08:41,585 --> 01:08:43,380 Me also having to do this. 1744 01:08:43,480 --> 01:08:44,000 Sorry. 1745 01:08:44,001 --> 01:08:44,920 And Perla flopped. 1746 01:08:44,921 --> 01:08:47,020 And Perla flopped over to the side. 1747 01:08:47,021 --> 01:08:53,001 And her little pointy tail just like wiggled out and did some crazy little dance. 1748 01:08:53,700 --> 01:08:57,440 But for Lindsey, she also has... 1749 01:08:58,930 --> 01:09:04,780 She is diagnosed as having depression, anxiety disorder. 1750 01:09:04,840 --> 01:09:06,860 I can't speak to what it is. 1751 01:09:06,940 --> 01:09:09,040 She is not medicated at this point. 1752 01:09:09,360 --> 01:09:10,800 And that's her choice. 1753 01:09:10,900 --> 01:09:12,280 She doesn't have to. 1754 01:09:12,281 --> 01:09:13,040 She doesn't want to. 1755 01:09:13,100 --> 01:09:14,100 She's a fucking grown up. 1756 01:09:14,180 --> 01:09:15,700 It's not our... Totally okay. 1757 01:09:15,701 --> 01:09:17,416 It's not her business how she wants to be medicated. 1758 01:09:17,440 --> 01:09:20,510 But I get... We're not even going to speak to that. 1759 01:09:20,600 --> 01:09:26,921 I understand her feelings as far as it goes for that with working a very long job. 1760 01:09:27,150 --> 01:09:32,980 And honestly, for an introvert working an extrovert's job, it's super fucking hard. 1761 01:09:33,830 --> 01:09:40,420 Having to talk to people all day and having to try to make your needs known in 1762 01:09:40,421 --> 01:09:45,680 a situation where people only worry about their own needs. 1763 01:09:45,681 --> 01:09:46,820 High paced environment. 1764 01:09:47,160 --> 01:09:48,160 It's very hard. 1765 01:09:49,755 --> 01:09:57,480 And I have had to deal a lot with that with me being an empath and dealing with 1766 01:09:57,481 --> 01:09:59,960 people who don't give a fuck about other people. 1767 01:10:00,140 --> 01:10:01,240 It's really tough. 1768 01:10:02,140 --> 01:10:06,140 I feel like my biggest issue is that those 1769 01:10:06,141 --> 01:10:11,141 emotions are there and that's perfectly valid. 1770 01:10:12,170 --> 01:10:20,140 But instead of those being... Either dealt with or talked about, she blows up. 1771 01:10:20,990 --> 01:10:22,060 And that happens. 1772 01:10:22,240 --> 01:10:23,860 You know, I've experienced it. 1773 01:10:23,980 --> 01:10:27,220 I haven't had a massive blow up in a while. 1774 01:10:27,770 --> 01:10:31,460 When was the last time you remember me having a screaming blow up? 1775 01:10:32,140 --> 01:10:37,128 Well, I'm going to say at that point, it's really 1776 01:10:37,129 --> 01:10:41,140 hard for her to even navigate those feelings. 1777 01:10:41,240 --> 01:10:41,700 Mm-hmm. 1778 01:10:41,970 --> 01:10:44,420 And having a blow up or having to... 1779 01:10:47,080 --> 01:10:51,254 burst out and say what she actually needs is 1780 01:10:51,255 --> 01:10:56,360 extremely hard for her to navigate even on her own. 1781 01:10:56,600 --> 01:10:57,600 Mm-hmm. 1782 01:10:57,640 --> 01:11:03,500 And just trying to stay at her baseline is probably a lot of work. 1783 01:11:03,920 --> 01:11:04,160 Mm-hmm. 1784 01:11:04,430 --> 01:11:09,472 Having been unmedicated at several points in my life, it is 1785 01:11:09,473 --> 01:11:13,640 extremely hard when you know you're going to freak the fuck out. 1786 01:11:13,720 --> 01:11:14,280 Yeah. 1787 01:11:14,420 --> 01:11:16,080 To just stay at your baseline. 1788 01:11:16,720 --> 01:11:17,720 I... 1789 01:11:18,260 --> 01:11:20,290 Honestly, as... We are privileged. 1790 01:11:20,440 --> 01:11:22,920 We are a white family, very privileged. 1791 01:11:23,280 --> 01:11:23,680 Mm-hmm. 1792 01:11:23,681 --> 01:11:25,121 I'm just saying this for the people. 1793 01:11:25,240 --> 01:11:26,240 No, agree, agree. 1794 01:11:26,860 --> 01:11:28,741 She has... We all do. 1795 01:11:29,150 --> 01:11:34,020 We all have the most resources of anybody. 1796 01:11:34,380 --> 01:11:37,320 Well, I mean, insurance only pays so much, just so you know. 1797 01:11:37,360 --> 01:11:37,600 No, no, no. 1798 01:11:37,660 --> 01:11:38,260 I'm aware of that. 1799 01:11:38,261 --> 01:11:38,500 But... 1800 01:11:38,675 --> 01:11:40,200 But I'm saying we have resources. 1801 01:11:40,930 --> 01:11:42,020 You can reach out for sure. 1802 01:11:42,280 --> 01:11:42,520 Mm-hmm. 1803 01:11:42,521 --> 01:11:43,521 Mm-hmm. 1804 01:11:43,740 --> 01:11:47,340 I've reached out more than once to the Trevor Project. 1805 01:11:48,265 --> 01:11:52,700 And that's like... that's at my lowest. 1806 01:11:53,100 --> 01:11:53,640 Right. 1807 01:11:53,660 --> 01:11:54,700 And... Right. 1808 01:11:54,980 --> 01:12:00,040 Now, it's been a while since I've reached out to them, which is good. 1809 01:12:00,280 --> 01:12:01,280 Yeah. 1810 01:12:02,390 --> 01:12:07,176 Um, medicating has helped me, but it has also kind 1811 01:12:07,177 --> 01:12:12,240 of ruined, like, certain parts of my brain in ways. 1812 01:12:13,720 --> 01:12:21,720 To where my social interaction has very... it's very shrunk. 1813 01:12:21,865 --> 01:12:22,865 It's just shrunk a lot. 1814 01:12:23,380 --> 01:12:24,380 Dwindled. 1815 01:12:24,505 --> 01:12:25,300 It has dwindled. 1816 01:12:25,480 --> 01:12:25,820 Yeah. 1817 01:12:25,880 --> 01:12:26,260 Yeah. 1818 01:12:26,395 --> 01:12:30,784 And I think that has to do with being sheltered 1819 01:12:30,785 --> 01:12:33,780 at a very important time due to COVID. 1820 01:12:34,000 --> 01:12:34,260 Right. 1821 01:12:34,670 --> 01:12:37,763 And I'm gonna say right now, your social 1822 01:12:37,764 --> 01:12:41,220 interaction is not as rusty as you think it is. 1823 01:12:41,221 --> 01:12:41,600 Mm-hmm. 1824 01:12:41,601 --> 01:12:47,400 Because today, we were able to go to my work party. 1825 01:12:48,240 --> 01:12:48,920 Mm-hmm. 1826 01:12:48,921 --> 01:12:53,600 Um, we had a meeting, uh, our... our winter meeting. 1827 01:12:53,860 --> 01:12:54,120 Mm-hmm. 1828 01:12:54,260 --> 01:12:57,260 Uh, our quarterly meeting at work. 1829 01:12:57,940 --> 01:13:01,040 And, uh, we had it at Dave and Buster's. 1830 01:13:01,155 --> 01:13:02,155 Love Davey. 1831 01:13:02,400 --> 01:13:07,657 And, um, I chose to ask Sophia to go with me because 1832 01:13:07,658 --> 01:13:11,401 she doesn't have a whole lot of social interaction. 1833 01:13:12,450 --> 01:13:16,800 She does love to hang out with people and... and play games. 1834 01:13:17,110 --> 01:13:21,240 And also, Lindsey is super, super tired when she gets done with work. 1835 01:13:21,790 --> 01:13:25,300 She does not want to do anything for a good three hours after she's done with work. 1836 01:13:25,380 --> 01:13:28,620 And I respect that because I totally fucking get it. 1837 01:13:29,300 --> 01:13:30,700 So I asked Sophia to go with me. 1838 01:13:31,310 --> 01:13:36,560 And, um, she was graceful enough to hang out with us. 1839 01:13:36,700 --> 01:13:41,040 And... and she was able to go, uh, off the first few, uh, uh, first few hours. 1840 01:13:41,041 --> 01:13:43,930 The first hour of our, uh... Hour and a half. 1841 01:13:44,040 --> 01:13:45,720 Hour and a half of our... our meeting. 1842 01:13:45,940 --> 01:13:46,300 Mm-hmm. 1843 01:13:46,301 --> 01:13:49,040 We had some business stuff to take care of. 1844 01:13:49,220 --> 01:13:49,740 Mm-hmm. 1845 01:13:49,980 --> 01:13:57,100 One of the things was to, um, was to, uh, announce me as a field training officer. 1846 01:13:57,360 --> 01:13:57,720 Mm-hmm. 1847 01:13:57,721 --> 01:13:58,260 Mm-hmm. 1848 01:13:58,261 --> 01:13:59,261 Thank you. 1849 01:13:59,780 --> 01:14:00,820 Uh, thank you. 1850 01:14:01,045 --> 01:14:05,152 So I get to teach little EMTs how to not tell 1851 01:14:05,212 --> 01:14:09,260 people to fuck off when they really, really want to. 1852 01:14:09,360 --> 01:14:09,920 Because... 1853 01:14:10,120 --> 01:14:12,840 I deal with them on a daily basis at work. 1854 01:14:13,510 --> 01:14:17,320 My... my angry brain tells me to say things. 1855 01:14:17,440 --> 01:14:24,240 And then my social brain tells me, no, no, no, let's be kind. 1856 01:14:24,420 --> 01:14:27,280 And we're gonna deal with this on a social level. 1857 01:14:27,440 --> 01:14:27,800 Mm-hmm. 1858 01:14:27,801 --> 01:14:29,480 And do a very nice thing. 1859 01:14:29,780 --> 01:14:33,620 And, um, I got sidetracked there. 1860 01:14:33,900 --> 01:14:34,060 Yeah. 1861 01:14:34,325 --> 01:14:37,480 Because I was very thankful that Sophia would want to go with me. 1862 01:14:37,580 --> 01:14:37,820 Mm-hmm. 1863 01:14:37,821 --> 01:14:39,220 And hang out with my work people. 1864 01:14:39,221 --> 01:14:44,660 That I hang out with, even though we only always hang out with each other. 1865 01:14:44,860 --> 01:14:45,300 Yeah. 1866 01:14:45,340 --> 01:14:51,290 So it was very fun to have her on this, um, little, uh, off-site excursion. 1867 01:14:51,920 --> 01:14:52,920 This adventure. 1868 01:14:53,020 --> 01:14:53,780 It was very fun. 1869 01:14:53,940 --> 01:14:54,140 Mm-hmm. 1870 01:14:54,141 --> 01:14:55,820 And I appreciate you going with me. 1871 01:14:55,880 --> 01:14:56,300 Thank you. 1872 01:14:56,690 --> 01:14:58,900 That's what you appreciates about me, Miss Katie? 1873 01:14:59,970 --> 01:15:01,980 That's what I appreciates about you. 1874 01:15:02,340 --> 01:15:03,720 Simmer down there, Squirrely Dan. 1875 01:15:04,120 --> 01:15:04,660 Woo! 1876 01:15:04,661 --> 01:15:04,860 Woo! 1877 01:15:05,620 --> 01:15:06,160 Yeah. 1878 01:15:06,260 --> 01:15:07,760 So it was... 1879 01:15:07,910 --> 01:15:09,100 Let's take a break. 1880 01:15:09,101 --> 01:15:10,300 A commercial break. 1881 01:15:10,380 --> 01:15:12,880 Well, it might be a... Enjoy this jazz music. 1882 01:15:13,600 --> 01:15:15,080 Doo-doo-doo-doo-doo. 1883 01:15:25,180 --> 01:15:32,620 And we are back from that short, tiny little, short little dwarf break. 1884 01:15:33,210 --> 01:15:35,921 Yeah, it was short for you, but it was really long 1885 01:15:35,922 --> 01:15:39,060 for us, because I have had quite a bit to drink. 1886 01:15:39,280 --> 01:15:40,280 Mm-hmm. 1887 01:15:40,660 --> 01:15:46,120 So we finished talking on the major depressive disorder, uh, topic. 1888 01:15:46,121 --> 01:15:48,200 Pretty sure we did not finish that. 1889 01:15:48,500 --> 01:15:49,200 We didn't. 1890 01:15:49,201 --> 01:15:50,201 No. 1891 01:15:50,380 --> 01:15:51,380 We broached it. 1892 01:15:51,620 --> 01:15:52,620 We did. 1893 01:15:52,700 --> 01:15:54,000 We lampooned it. 1894 01:15:54,900 --> 01:15:55,760 Oh, lampoon. 1895 01:15:55,761 --> 01:15:56,761 What a great word. 1896 01:15:57,010 --> 01:15:58,076 Is that the right word for it? 1897 01:15:58,100 --> 01:15:59,100 I'm pretty sure. 1898 01:15:59,400 --> 01:16:00,880 Well, I don't want to make fun of it. 1899 01:16:01,580 --> 01:16:02,140 Lampooning? 1900 01:16:02,200 --> 01:16:03,200 Yeah. 1901 01:16:04,220 --> 01:16:05,340 National lampoon. 1902 01:16:05,360 --> 01:16:08,600 But you talked about having a major depressive disorder. 1903 01:16:08,960 --> 01:16:09,100 Yeah. 1904 01:16:09,670 --> 01:16:12,620 And I, uh, as well, have the same thing. 1905 01:16:13,320 --> 01:16:14,720 However, I have anxiety. 1906 01:16:15,200 --> 01:16:16,200 I do, too. 1907 01:16:16,900 --> 01:16:24,040 To add to it, I feel like we need to, uh, sidetrack to a, uh... A nicer topic. 1908 01:16:24,810 --> 01:16:28,152 I feel like we need to sidetrack to some sort of, uh, 1909 01:16:28,153 --> 01:16:34,300 therapeutic conversation with a certified professional. 1910 01:16:34,960 --> 01:16:35,600 Mm-hmm. 1911 01:16:35,940 --> 01:16:40,220 We can't cure each other, although we can listen to each other... 1912 01:16:40,640 --> 01:16:40,900 Mm-hmm. 1913 01:16:41,040 --> 01:16:42,040 ...and give feedback. 1914 01:16:42,140 --> 01:16:43,721 And... I... 1915 01:16:43,920 --> 01:16:44,680 I'm gonna be honest. 1916 01:16:44,681 --> 01:16:45,960 I hate therapy. 1917 01:16:46,440 --> 01:16:48,200 I liked one therapist. 1918 01:16:48,480 --> 01:16:48,840 Yeah. 1919 01:16:49,240 --> 01:16:51,220 And I had to stop going to them. 1920 01:16:51,505 --> 01:16:53,380 It was the therapist that was trans, huh? 1921 01:16:53,520 --> 01:16:53,700 Mm-hmm. 1922 01:16:53,890 --> 01:16:54,890 They were awesome. 1923 01:16:54,980 --> 01:16:55,200 Mm-hmm. 1924 01:16:55,480 --> 01:16:58,860 But they were not an... an adolescent therapist. 1925 01:16:59,280 --> 01:16:59,600 Mm-hmm. 1926 01:16:59,740 --> 01:17:00,180 Unfortunately. 1927 01:17:00,500 --> 01:17:04,920 I don't... I do think I can't... I... I... I... I can go back now. 1928 01:17:05,060 --> 01:17:08,860 You should reach out now that you're a... A... A... A... A... Finger quotes. 1929 01:17:08,900 --> 01:17:09,500 An adult. 1930 01:17:09,700 --> 01:17:10,240 An adult. 1931 01:17:10,241 --> 01:17:10,560 An adult. 1932 01:17:10,600 --> 01:17:11,400 You should. 1933 01:17:11,540 --> 01:17:11,960 Uh-huh. 1934 01:17:11,961 --> 01:17:13,156 Because that would be awesome. 1935 01:17:13,180 --> 01:17:14,660 I felt like you did a great job. 1936 01:17:14,680 --> 01:17:15,880 You did a great job with them. 1937 01:17:16,235 --> 01:17:20,500 I'm just gonna say, the last therapist I have, fuck you. 1938 01:17:20,860 --> 01:17:21,200 No. 1939 01:17:21,201 --> 01:17:21,900 Not good. 1940 01:17:22,080 --> 01:17:22,220 No. 1941 01:17:22,240 --> 01:17:22,780 Like... Uh-uh. 1942 01:17:23,000 --> 01:17:24,180 Actually, fuck you. 1943 01:17:24,260 --> 01:17:25,860 You are horrible at your job. 1944 01:17:26,020 --> 01:17:26,260 Yeah. 1945 01:17:26,320 --> 01:17:27,380 You can't listen. 1946 01:17:27,460 --> 01:17:30,020 You do not understand families. 1947 01:17:30,280 --> 01:17:32,720 And... Extremely disrespectful to me. 1948 01:17:32,920 --> 01:17:33,920 You should not. 1949 01:17:34,460 --> 01:17:35,460 For sure. 1950 01:17:35,680 --> 01:17:35,960 Yeah. 1951 01:17:36,560 --> 01:17:37,120 Yeah. 1952 01:17:37,180 --> 01:17:40,460 Uh... I would mention things that, like, I was really enjoying. 1953 01:17:41,225 --> 01:17:42,240 Like, code-based. 1954 01:17:42,500 --> 01:17:42,820 Mm-hmm. 1955 01:17:42,821 --> 01:17:43,400 And it's like... 1956 01:17:43,800 --> 01:17:45,300 So, do you make money on that? 1957 01:17:45,580 --> 01:17:46,580 I'm like, nope. 1958 01:17:46,730 --> 01:17:49,380 And he's like, well, you should find out how to make money on that. 1959 01:17:49,820 --> 01:17:52,440 And I'm like, that's not the point of it. 1960 01:17:52,690 --> 01:17:55,460 I was basically telling him that it makes me happy. 1961 01:17:55,540 --> 01:17:58,920 And he's like, we should make it so that you won't be happy. 1962 01:17:59,320 --> 01:17:59,800 Right. 1963 01:17:59,920 --> 01:18:01,640 Just make money and don't be happy. 1964 01:18:02,250 --> 01:18:04,000 Let's go into late-stage capitalism. 1965 01:18:04,460 --> 01:18:04,500 Ooh. 1966 01:18:05,100 --> 01:18:06,240 That was my dog. 1967 01:18:06,895 --> 01:18:08,020 Having a little coffee fit. 1968 01:18:08,100 --> 01:18:09,100 Sorry about that. 1969 01:18:09,200 --> 01:18:10,200 Ouch. 1970 01:18:10,320 --> 01:18:11,320 Chu-Chu. 1971 01:18:11,430 --> 01:18:12,430 He's a good boy. 1972 01:18:12,760 --> 01:18:13,240 Yeah. 1973 01:18:13,241 --> 01:18:13,420 He's a good boy. 1974 01:18:13,620 --> 01:18:16,260 And I apologize for that, honestly. 1975 01:18:16,640 --> 01:18:17,260 It was your fault. 1976 01:18:17,261 --> 01:18:23,760 It was the... once the therapist that you really enjoyed visiting with said, 1977 01:18:24,135 --> 01:18:25,840 this is not my bag. 1978 01:18:26,070 --> 01:18:27,070 I can't do this. 1979 01:18:27,680 --> 01:18:29,360 And... Legally can't do it. 1980 01:18:29,480 --> 01:18:29,880 Yes. 1981 01:18:30,060 --> 01:18:33,920 And passed you off, said, here's the X amount of people that can. 1982 01:18:34,670 --> 01:18:35,860 Try these people. 1983 01:18:35,960 --> 01:18:37,160 And we tried those people. 1984 01:18:37,260 --> 01:18:42,580 And we ended up with this person that just did not help anything. 1985 01:18:42,581 --> 01:18:46,000 I feel like he was a gay man. 1986 01:18:46,380 --> 01:18:47,380 Yeah. 1987 01:18:47,515 --> 01:18:50,300 And he also was pushy. 1988 01:18:51,240 --> 01:18:57,760 He would constantly try to step completely out of my comfort zone, which was 1989 01:18:58,160 --> 01:19:00,640 explicitly told out of my comfort zone. 1990 01:19:01,460 --> 01:19:05,574 I told him what I found to be not things that 1991 01:19:05,575 --> 01:19:10,461 I necessarily wanted to talk about or do. 1992 01:19:10,665 --> 01:19:11,800 And he did them anyway. 1993 01:19:11,801 --> 01:19:14,120 So he ignored your boundaries. 1994 01:19:15,300 --> 01:19:16,500 And that's not okay. 1995 01:19:16,820 --> 01:19:20,060 And once... And testing boundaries is okay. 1996 01:19:20,100 --> 01:19:23,100 Testing them, saying, hey, push, push. 1997 01:19:23,460 --> 01:19:24,460 You push back. 1998 01:19:24,810 --> 01:19:25,680 Nope, that's okay. 1999 01:19:25,780 --> 01:19:26,120 Cool. 2000 01:19:26,650 --> 01:19:30,360 Then, you know, months later, saying, hey, push, push. 2001 01:19:30,910 --> 01:19:33,940 You push back or say, yes, let's talk about that. 2002 01:19:34,140 --> 01:19:36,420 That's therapeutic, I feel like. 2003 01:19:36,980 --> 01:19:39,900 And I can't... I'm gonna put my hands up. 2004 01:19:39,960 --> 01:19:41,300 I am not a therapist. 2005 01:19:41,301 --> 01:19:43,300 I am not mental health advice. 2006 01:19:43,440 --> 01:19:44,820 No, no, no, no. 2007 01:19:44,940 --> 01:19:48,540 But I am a mom and I am a health care provider. 2008 01:19:49,315 --> 01:19:56,900 However, none of what I say right now is clinical, clinically based. 2009 01:19:57,280 --> 01:19:59,300 It's just not peer reviewed. 2010 01:19:59,490 --> 01:20:00,440 No, it is not. 2011 01:20:00,480 --> 01:20:02,200 No, thank you. 2012 01:20:02,750 --> 01:20:07,180 And it's just what I as a human will say and offer up. 2013 01:20:07,410 --> 01:20:11,280 And honestly, when I am on the job, it's the same thing. 2014 01:20:11,300 --> 01:20:15,008 But at this point, while I'm in my jammies and 2015 01:20:15,009 --> 01:20:17,940 having a cocktail, I can't say the same thing. 2016 01:20:18,065 --> 01:20:21,915 I will say my opinions, but I can't clinically 2017 01:20:21,916 --> 01:20:25,381 say this is what you should or shouldn't do. 2018 01:20:25,510 --> 01:20:26,540 So there we go. 2019 01:20:28,300 --> 01:20:35,800 And once I got my therapist letter for him to start estrogen, ghosted him. 2020 01:20:36,320 --> 01:20:38,300 And he never followed up. 2021 01:20:38,480 --> 01:20:39,480 That was the sad part. 2022 01:20:39,550 --> 01:20:41,140 I was a little sad. 2023 01:20:41,300 --> 01:20:42,500 I was a little sad about that. 2024 01:20:42,820 --> 01:20:48,374 Was that he never said, hey, I know I sent you this PCS, 2025 01:20:48,375 --> 01:20:53,600 essentially this physician certification, something or other. 2026 01:20:55,180 --> 01:20:55,980 I said this. 2027 01:20:56,080 --> 01:20:58,940 And have you talked to someone? 2028 01:20:59,160 --> 01:20:59,580 Do you? 2029 01:20:59,660 --> 01:21:00,680 Are you doing the thing? 2030 01:21:00,920 --> 01:21:02,260 What's going on with you? 2031 01:21:03,360 --> 01:21:04,540 He never did follow up. 2032 01:21:04,630 --> 01:21:09,960 And that's really sad because a lot of people who need health care providers, 2033 01:21:10,180 --> 01:21:11,280 mental health care providers. 2034 01:21:11,300 --> 01:21:14,880 Need someone to say, hey, how you doing? 2035 01:21:15,440 --> 01:21:16,440 Right? 2036 01:21:16,940 --> 01:21:18,820 That's, that's what Max did. 2037 01:21:19,120 --> 01:21:20,260 Max was fantastic. 2038 01:21:20,825 --> 01:21:22,000 They were amazing. 2039 01:21:22,975 --> 01:21:27,340 Like, I would want them to come over and hang out with us at dinner if if if 2040 01:21:27,341 --> 01:21:29,720 something was going on, which they couldn't do. 2041 01:21:29,880 --> 01:21:30,380 Right. 2042 01:21:30,740 --> 01:21:31,820 As a health care provider. 2043 01:21:31,980 --> 01:21:32,980 Yes. 2044 01:21:33,565 --> 01:21:36,720 But as a human, they were fucking amazing. 2045 01:21:36,780 --> 01:21:39,900 I think it violates the therapist code of ethics. 2046 01:21:39,960 --> 01:21:40,200 HIPAA. 2047 01:21:40,360 --> 01:21:40,800 Yeah. 2048 01:21:41,300 --> 01:21:42,300 Or something like that. 2049 01:21:42,400 --> 01:21:44,040 No, I think it violates their ethics. 2050 01:21:44,200 --> 01:21:46,280 They can't have personal relationship with clients. 2051 01:21:46,960 --> 01:21:47,760 Yeah, right. 2052 01:21:47,980 --> 01:21:49,980 But that doesn't stop our current administration. 2053 01:21:50,505 --> 01:21:52,680 But that is true. 2054 01:21:52,880 --> 01:21:53,140 Right? 2055 01:21:53,660 --> 01:21:54,100 Yeah. 2056 01:21:54,530 --> 01:21:55,650 I don't know why I did that. 2057 01:21:59,300 --> 01:22:01,800 Well, thank you for joining. 2058 01:22:02,020 --> 01:22:05,120 And, you know, we hope to see you next week. 2059 01:22:06,350 --> 01:22:09,000 We're actually not going to see anybody. 2060 01:22:09,710 --> 01:22:10,680 They're just going to be listening. 2061 01:22:10,681 --> 01:22:11,881 They're going to be listening. 2062 01:22:12,470 --> 01:22:14,840 Or if you're seeing, you shouldn't. 2063 01:22:15,040 --> 01:22:19,500 I certainly appreciate you guys hanging out long enough for us to finish this 2064 01:22:19,501 --> 01:22:26,408 episode, which is a crazy amount of time for anyone to listen to anyone just jibber jabber 2065 01:22:26,433 --> 01:22:33,180 about stuff and a dog to talk about whatever that is. 2066 01:22:33,820 --> 01:22:38,580 So we for sure appreciate you for hanging out with us. 2067 01:22:38,660 --> 01:22:39,660 Thank you so much. 2068 01:22:39,820 --> 01:22:40,660 And we hope... 2069 01:22:40,680 --> 01:22:44,880 And we hope you will join us at the next episode of Let's Get Sidetracked. 2070 01:22:44,940 --> 01:22:47,260 And Sophia, what you got to say? 2071 01:22:48,080 --> 01:22:49,080 Bye! 2072 01:22:50,540 --> 01:22:51,540 Bye! 2073 01:22:58,070 --> 01:22:59,110 We do the intro. 2074 01:23:03,650 --> 01:23:06,050 And then, hello, friends. 2075 01:23:06,450 --> 01:23:07,410 Hello, friends. 2076 01:23:07,470 --> 01:23:08,530 Just that. 2077 01:23:08,750 --> 01:23:09,750 Let's try. 2078 01:23:10,330 --> 01:23:14,531 Hello, friends, and welcome to another episode of... Greetings, everyone. 2079 01:23:14,930 --> 01:23:16,050 Welcome to blah, blah, blah. 2080 01:23:16,210 --> 01:23:22,030 I feel like greeting sounds like... Greetings, earthling. 2081 01:23:25,410 --> 01:23:26,150 Greetings. 2082 01:23:26,151 --> 01:23:28,330 Hello, gender neutral term here. 2083 01:23:29,530 --> 01:23:31,490 Hello, there, slurs. 2084 01:23:32,210 --> 01:23:33,210 Oh. 2085 01:23:33,890 --> 01:23:34,630 Suffix. 2086 01:23:34,730 --> 01:23:35,730 No. 2087 01:23:35,950 --> 01:23:37,130 Hey skinks. 2088 01:23:37,770 --> 01:23:39,290 Skinks, hey skinks. 2089 01:23:40,210 --> 01:23:44,710 Yeah, um... You know, since I talked about, since we talked about that, I got a few 2090 01:23:44,711 --> 01:23:51,270 videos of this guy that raises skinks and he tries to check whether they're boys or 2091 01:23:51,271 --> 01:23:56,050 girls and when he picks them up, they go and they try to bite him. 2092 01:23:56,210 --> 01:23:57,210 I would too. 2093 01:23:57,390 --> 01:23:58,390 It was so cute. 2094 01:23:59,090 --> 01:23:59,530 Hello. 2095 01:23:59,630 --> 01:23:59,990 Hey. 2096 01:24:00,190 --> 01:24:00,850 Hey cunts. 2097 01:24:01,150 --> 01:24:02,170 Sup fuckers. 2098 01:24:02,230 --> 01:24:02,670 See? 2099 01:24:03,080 --> 01:24:03,790 Sup fuckers. 2100 01:24:03,791 --> 01:24:04,530 Sup fuckers. 2101 01:24:04,531 --> 01:24:05,350 How about that one? 2102 01:24:05,390 --> 01:24:05,850 Sup fuckers. 2103 01:24:05,851 --> 01:24:07,110 I think sup fuckers is it. 2104 01:24:07,410 --> 01:24:07,850 Yep. 2105 01:24:08,030 --> 01:24:08,810 Let's do that. 2106 01:24:09,010 --> 01:24:09,450 Okay. 2107 01:24:09,550 --> 01:24:09,990 You ready? 2108 01:24:10,130 --> 01:24:10,510 Yep. 2109 01:24:11,070 --> 01:24:12,190 Who's saying it this time? 2110 01:24:12,470 --> 01:24:18,150 So, do we want to introduce, do we need to introduce ourselves every single time? 2111 01:24:18,290 --> 01:24:18,550 Yes. 2112 01:24:18,970 --> 01:24:20,190 So, I'm Sophia. 2113 01:24:20,630 --> 01:24:21,630 I'm Stephanie. 2114 01:24:22,550 --> 01:24:25,990 Well, when we say sup fuckers, I'm Sophia. 2115 01:24:26,230 --> 01:24:26,710 Oh, let's see. 2116 01:24:26,790 --> 01:24:30,410 Sup fuckers, welcome to another episode of Let's Get Sidetracked. 2117 01:24:30,530 --> 01:24:31,770 I'm... Wait. 2118 01:24:32,050 --> 01:24:34,113 Sup fuckers, welcome to another episode of 2119 01:24:34,213 --> 01:24:37,190 Let's Get Sidetracked with me, Sophia Atkinson. 2120 01:24:37,210 --> 01:24:38,630 And me, Stephanie.